I took someone's advice from here and decided to do what they told me, but I messed-up. I wrote this guy a note that I like, because I'm too afraid to go up to him (I'm shy). So I wrote it, but didn't put who it was from, I'm too scared to find out what he'll think of me. So now he's looking around in class trying to figure out who wrote him. I know I did a stupid thing. I still like him, what do I do now, I've kinda messed-up already.
2006-11-13 06:00:56 · 17 answers · asked by ry8617jo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Trust me...You didn't mess up. :)
Obviously, he's VERY interrested because he's trying so hard to find the writer. Just tell him that it was you...He'll take over from there.
Good luck
2006-11-13 06:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off - you didn't do a stupid thing.
Let's get realistic about what happened and just think it through:
You are too shy to talk with him in person so you wrote a note to him. Now he has a note and doesn't know who it's from.
You obviously want him to know that you wrote it.
OK - now, if he wants to hang out with you, you will have to talk to him sooner or later (you can't just sit there looking at each other)
so just tell him you forgot to sign the note.
If you are really not comfortable with talking directly to him just yet just send him another note saying you forgot to sign your name.
Being shy is certainly not stupid and not a mistake. It's OK to be shy and reserved a bit. Pretend that he is just like your brother, sister, or friend that you just kind of talk to. He is just a human being like all of us - nothing different.
Good Luck !!!!
2006-11-13 06:26:12 · answer #2 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys LOVE girls who are confident. For once, your going to have to hold back your shyness and get some courage to go up to this guy, because if you dont tell him, you will have to live the rest of your life wondering if he liked you back, do you want to torture yourself like that? If you REALLY want to fix this problem, your going to have to go up to him and explain to him (NOT THAT YOU ARE SHY) but that you wrote the note, you forgot to put your name, and you were wondering what he thought of the note (or something like that) If you want to forget about the problem, dont tell him who wrote it, but that leads to consequences like, never knowing what he thought of you; which could be good. Go for it, have some courage, whats the WORST he can say "i dont like you either" and even if he does say that, there are thousands of other guys out there!!! You only live once, just go for it.
2006-11-13 06:05:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ricki M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 05:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the response looked positive then go up to him and tell him that you have a secret to tell him and admit you sent the letter.Admit that you are shy and that was the reason for not signing it
2006-11-13 06:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him another note, but make it seem like it's from the prettiest girl in class and sign her name on it. That should take her down a peg, the little b****.
2006-11-13 06:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him an anonymous note saying - lets see...
Wear a green shirt if you want to know who I am. Wear a red shirt if you don't care..
:)
Cute cat and mouse game might arouse his interest. Use humor and he might be into you even before he finds out that it is you.. Sense of humor is your best friend :)
2006-11-13 06:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by Centered 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no baby you didnt mess up you just need to go to him dont be shy go to him as a friend dont even bring up the letter just approach him as a friend find out one of his interests
2006-11-13 06:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by kindra1988 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him another anonymous note telling him to stop looking and you will come forward, or just announce it in class.
2006-11-13 06:02:47 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and quietly tell him that the note was from you.
2006-11-13 06:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋