I am a chatty person. I talk alot and share my opinions with everyone. My 2 closest friends have fallen out with me and so has the bigger circle of people I know. I would not ever say something that I wouldn't say to someones face and I beleive honesty is the ebst policy. However I have been selling stuff for 1 of my 2 close friends on ebay. A friend of hers has convinced her that I ripped her off and even went to the extent of figuring out my password and accessing my ebay account. I have done no such thing and she knew she had full access of my account at my house (once I logged her in). She will not listen to the fact that there is before/ after and paypal fees to pay when the stuff gets sold. Now she is twisting my words and telling my secrets she is so convinced.
I am 25 years old and my only friends are from my daughters school. I have tried to make things right & I want to make things righrt but no one is listening to me. This is playground crap to me. what would you do?
2006-11-13 06:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by greenhorse8179 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You do not need friends who are more willing to believe rumor,than you.Especially if you are known for being honest.Perhaps you should let them go.Friends come and go but good friends are there no matter what and will make the best of any situation.If you can make new friends with ladies from your daughters school then go ahead more power to you!These are very childish games,that you dont need. And this so called friend of yours doesn't believe you even if you tried to prove to her you didn't jip her on some cash,and still is looking to bring you down in some way or another then it's best to seperate yourself from them before any bad stuf begins to circulate and god forbid your daughter becomes exposed to such nonsense. I have sold on e-bay and yes ther are some fees that do need to be paid especially if it's more than one item. Good luck,and don't loose any sleep over this,your daughter is more important than this problem.
2006-11-13 06:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by Crazy7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not really your friends if they can treat you like this...just print off a charges sheet off ebay and just give it to the friend who is being told and let her seefor herself . As for the other friend what she is actually doing by going onto your ebay account withour permission is a crime and she can get into trouble for this....sounds to me like she wants her friend to herself...you know your innocent and you have the best way in life by saying "Honesty is your best policy" you will see it will all come good ion the end ..your so called friend needs educating on the fact that she could get in serious trouble for accessing your accounts and tell her if she carries on you will report it.
2006-11-13 06:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by wxantiadh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if these people were real friends they would not be putting you through this, one of my closest friends have recently fallen out wit me over somethink petty, i belive if she was a real friend then things should not of gone as far as they have, i know who my real friends are, they are the people who belive in what i say, maybe you should think about the people who are always there for you no matter what get said.
2006-11-13 07:39:44 · answer #3 · answered by bootykaza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find me some better friends after you have cleared up this matter. Then if you know you are in the right then don't worry about them.
2006-11-13 06:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u not already posed a variation of the same question? Im sure Ive answered this one. Perhaps you didn't get the answer u wanted.
2006-11-13 06:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are a bit too worried about what other people think about you.you need to grow up yourself and realise that these people are not your friends.if they were you would not be asking this question.kick 'em all into touch babe and find some more friends.if they are real friends they will call you .ok!
2006-11-13 06:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
errr, it just sounds like they're not very good friends. Think you need to do the old "talk to the hand cos the face ain't listening" thing to them, until they grow up !
good luck
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2006-11-13 06:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by SkiButt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were really your friends, they wouldn't be treating you like this. Tell them all to clear off and grow up!
2006-11-13 08:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by chemical_sister_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut em loose. You lot are too grown to be acting like that.
2006-11-13 06:04:16 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are falling out with you? your friends?! you call those friends? get over it it's not worth crying over stupid ppl who don't give a flying f**k about you. been there, done that. not the same situation but... you understand... those ppl are not your friends.
2006-11-13 06:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋