Did you get to hold your baby that passed (if he/she was already formed)?
I did and it was very difficult. The baby was was very tiny and I just held him/her in my palms for a long time until I was ready to let them go.
2006-11-13 05:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Did you pass your baby at home or at the hospital? I forgot to ask.
2006-11-13 05:57:20 · update #1
I passed my (7 week) baby at home so I had the opportunity. my baby was just the size of a cashew nut and not fully formed so it wasn't much of a healing process, my friend lost her son at 33 weeks and she held him for a long time, it helped her a lot.
2006-11-13 05:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my miscarriage when I was 3 months along so nothing to hold. I think I would have wanted to had there been anything and yes it would be difficult because even now 2 years later and a healthy baby boy I still think of the baby I lost and cry some people seem to move on and never think of it again and that hurts me because it's like they don't care and I still cry. I am so sorry to hear about your baby, God bless you, your baby is in heaven so it is better off than you are.
2006-11-13 13:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by jo_jo_baby2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry that you were not able to sustain the pregnancy; I would think that would be very difficult. If the baby were already formed so as to be recognizable, I think I would want to hold it briefly as well; as long as it was a good thing for you, then I think that is the important issue. Should you choose to become pregnant in the future, I wish you every success and happiness.
2006-11-13 13:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my miscarriage in July of this year i was 10 1/2 weeks along i passed some of my baby at home and on the way to the hospital... by the tI'me i reached the hospital i had done had a complete miscarriage... im still sad and cry at times because of it its like a feeling that i cant get rid of... its like a bad dream that i can't wake from....
2006-11-13 15:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by MZ.SMOOTH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I was only 7 weeks I'm haunted by my miscarriage and cant stop thinking about it It is an awful thing!
2006-11-13 13:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never got to hold my baby because it was a ball of blood.
2006-11-13 13:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, most hospitals around here throw them out as medical waste if you are under about 26 weeks
2006-11-13 13:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lori R 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋