well me and my boyfriend have been together for awhile now . and ive been hearing about this girl . who follows him around and always asking people if he still with me .. and when i ask other people about her they say shes a hoe and shes always starting **** ..
well i came home from hunting alll weekend with my boyfriend and my brothers ..we was checking our myspace's .. and i received a message from her
heres the message:
hey we don't know each other personally but i know of you i was just wondering if you and daniel were still together because he is trying to get with me and i didn't want to go with him if yall were still together because im not the kind of person to ruin a relationship like yalls so if you will just let me know if yall are still together (because he is saying that yall broke up , and james is saying that yall are still togethre ) so i don't know who to believe so i figured i would ask you
he said it wasnt true and kept repeating that me love me not her
2006-11-13 05:18:54 · 12 answers · asked by Xxxcore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she is nothing but trouble and is trying to break up the relationship that you have by giving you the letter she is hoping that you will get fed up with all that has been going on with the rumors and finally let your boyfriend go so she can have him to herself, because she really wants him but is trying to appeal to you by making it seem like your boyfriend is the one who wants her and is after her when its really the other way around, she is playing a game with you and is trying to get an ok from you that's its ok to date your boyfriend...
2006-11-13 06:34:49 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sticky one. How sure are you that your man isn't talking to this girl? How sure are you that this girl isn't telling you the truth? Even if she's a hoe, some men like hitting it cause they can, if they can get away with it, then play all stupid and innocent (oh she wats me, but I LOVE YOU honey!). So do some homework. Ask her when was the last time he asked her? Where was he? She? Where werre they? Who was there and so on? You can bait her with "I might dump him if you can have him if you tell me EVERYTHING". Then see if he's been there with them! Check him out. Check her out. Don't believe either of them till you know what is what. Don't say anything about not trusting him, just check it out. If she mentions one of his friends that you can talk to, go straight to them, were you there when she was there? SHE SAID this and this....is that true? And so on. If he's lying you'll know soon enough and I would hand him over to her with a bow. If she's lying, I hand the skank her fanny in a bucket. In any case, he knows this girl is wanting him, he should have MADE IT CLEAR to her that he has you, that he has NO INTEREST WHATSOEVER. If you can get them in the same spot and ask him in front of her, "she says you are trying to get with her and that we are broke up! Is that true?" He will have to say it in front of her and if she sees he is with you, that may end it all. I say bring it on and lets get it ALL OUT IN THE OPEN!
2006-11-13 13:35:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt have said n e thing to him about the message YET...bcause of course hes gonna say that shes lying..u have to do ur own investigation...bcause she could be lying..why hit u on ur myspace? what she should have done if ur man is really going after her is confront u when all of y'all are in the same place 2gether..and then look at his reaction..u kno if ur man is lying..women r sneaky and she could b doing this 2 make u leave him..what happens in the dark will eventually come to light..dont leave him yet...just wait and time will tell...when i 1st got with my boyfriend sum chick called my house to tell me my man wasn't s*** and they had sex and he got a whole bunch of other women when i asked her when was all this goin on she said it was like 4 mths b4 i even got w/my man..my point is u have 2 give UR MAN the benefit of the doubt 1st until u c different (unless this has happened b4) but remember u r a women 1st and u gotta protect urself in everyway...
2006-11-13 13:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like she is trying to break yall up...dont dump your guy until you have some proof that he told her that...but in my opinion she just wants to break yall up so she can have him...so dont let that happen :)
2006-11-13 13:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jen05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would appreciate the fact that she communicated this with you. I'd tell her, "Thank you for the information. We've been together for a while, but since he appears interested in other girls, I've decided to move on. Feel free to date him, but bear in mind that he cannot be faithful to one girl". Then DUMP HIM!
2006-11-13 13:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's kind of like Britney Spears asking Shar Jackson if she's still with Kevin.
Ignore it if you trust your boyfriend
2006-11-13 13:24:12 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S A TRAP...Don't let her sabotage your relationship. She has already gotten an answer from your bf. She just wrote that to cause problems so that you two might break up.
Reply to her and say that her meddeling has made you two CLOSER. She'll really get pissed. ;)
2006-11-13 13:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some homework girly.....test your boy. and test the girl, see if somehow you can catch them together, or ask her friends or even your boys friends....someone has got to know something.
but i really wouldn't worry to much, if you have asked people about her and they say that kind of stuff, it sounds to me like she is trying to convince you that your boy is cheating so you will leave him so she can have free rein on him.....don't leave him...work it out and piss her off more!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 13:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by vgplamondon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still in highschool? This sounds so highschool.
Obviously she is trying to break you and your boyfriend up and you questioning him shows that it is working.
2006-11-13 13:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you from West Virginia?
2006-11-13 13:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋