whats better, if i stay sober and ejaculate quickly/romanticly OR pub it and get pissed but satisfy her.?

Question

I'm male and, therefore, have no idea which is better.

Answer 1

You need to think about your partner, not just yourself. Part of making love is getting excited know that she is excited too.
Why would you be pist, because you HAD to satisfy her? You need to grow up or go gay!

Answer 2

*Laughs* First, you dweeb, I cannot even fathom how ejaculating quickly could even border on being romantic but, okay, if you say so....Secondly, it sounds like you need to control your little "friend" a bit better so that it's properly trained to obey. Damn, dude, have you not got enough strength of mind to control the functions or "explosions" of your own body without having to numb your senses up with alcohol? Instead of a bar, how about going to a local bookstore and stocking up on some literature on how to be a caring, sexy, fulfilling partner for your mate...and then read, take notes, and apply!! For some reason, when I read your question, it put me in the mind of a dog dry humping a fire hydrant. Eww!! There are about 10 zillion ways to satisfy your partner sexually by means other than JUST penetration. There is so much more to love making than just slipping your penis in and convulsing your hips until you spew. No wonder your girl cannot get off if that is your pitiful approach. Incorporate some exotic sex toys, some sexy talk, some sensual touching, some erotic licking, teasing bites, playfully delicious nibbles, heated whispers....and do all this BEFORE you whip "it" out and try to impale her with it. Damn...use your big head to do the thinking instead of your little one in this scenario!

Answer 3

First you are NOT an idiot! It seems all males are in this sort of situation at some time, if not all the time.
I have heard that sometimes do it for her, that way when you want, she will be more forgiving. So pub it a good part of the time and you might find that she really gets into it when you are pushing it toward quickness!
One woman sung:
I want a man with slow hands
I want a man with an easy touch
and so on.
She wanted someone who would take his time not "come and go in a heated rush."
Now most guys including myself are happy with a quick Ohhh Woooow Job!'
What I have learned studying it, women are wired physically to arouse, respond, and climax more slowly. They want to cuddle, we want to get it over!

Answer 4

a man that smells of alcohol ... and sweat ..... and god knows what else ...not very attractive let alone romantic is it???? stay sober! if you ejaculate too fast then try viagra or Kangarra pills which you can get from Ann Summers. if you don't want to do that then try making foreplay last longer which any women is going to find stimulating. try pleasuring her orally and/or maybe both you and her can do it simultaneously.... but yes the point is there's loads of options to satisfying a woman.

Answer 5

Gee, thanks for thinking of us women. Is the relationship serious? If it is then stay sober. If not then only have a couple of drinks. No need to get pissed. If you are frequenting the pub alot, then maybe you have a drinking prob. But I can understand since British "beer" is way better than the US. Have a pint for me, please! Good luck!

Answer 6

Why don't you learn how to satisfy a woman when you are sober. Sounds as if you are a slam, bam, thank you kind of man. So grow up and quit thinking of yourself, you might be surprised.

Answer 7

If you think that having some pissed bloke on top of you is satisfying then I think you should go learn about women my friend.

Answer 8

Whats better? Hmm maybe if she and me get it on just girls together and leave you down the pub.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

theres nothing worse than a man coming home stinking of beer wanting to get all romantic. thats what you think just cos you're pissed that your misses wants to get sexual but in fact she just wishes you'd go to sleep and leave her alone!