my husband and have been trying to get pregnant, but never a success. is there something wrong with me? am i doing it wrong? i'm not experienced so i'm usually on the bottom. what am i doig wrong?
2006-11-13 04:35:51 · 7 answers · asked by layla 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
there is no wring or wright way. I suggest that after you make love, then you fall asleep without gettign up. This will keep the sperm in your body longer. Gravity will draw it out if you get up and walk around. There is also a therory that pee kills sperm. so don't go straight to the bathroom... only god can decide when the right time for you to have a baby is, so just wait and don't try so hard. good luck.
2006-11-13 04:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not be having sex on the days that you can actually get pregnant. It took me a few months to actually learn how Trying To Conceive works. I had to read a lot of books and search on web sites. First thing start by taking your temperature every morning next cycle. When it drops (sometime around 10-14 days after your period) and then it rises again the next day that's when you're ovulating. Also try Ovulation prediction kits start them around day 10. When you get a positive one have sex during those 2 days. Those are the days when you can become pregnant.
2006-11-13 12:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by honey27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically, you will need to try for 1 year before there will be any tests run or your Doctor will presribe any meds. If this is your case, than you should visit a doctor. There are a few simple things to help you concieve. Firstly, you need to track your periods very closely for a while. Once you get your cycle figured out then you can figure out when you are ovulating and most fertile. If you want to cheat on this you could always get an ovulation kit, but you will still need to know your cycle. You and your husband could try to have intercourse with him befind you. You will have to on your hands and knees and he will put his penis in from behind you. Be prepared though,this could be somewhat uncomfortable for you as when it is done this way, your husband will be able to go much further inside you. Try not to put to much focus on getting pregnant as it seems to take longer this way. Have fun with your husband! Good Luck!
2006-11-13 12:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Dena F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably fine. Try an ovulation kit, and also after sex stay flat for 30 min with your hips elevated if you can. That will ensure all the things are in place for perfect fertalization, also dont have sex every day... you will exhaust all the sperm, making it less that will come out every time, even if you see a lot of fluid. Having sex every 3-4 days is ideal. See a doc if you dont have a kid in your tummy in 6 months.
2006-11-13 12:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Holly M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took me a wile to get preg and i thought there might be something wrong with me i thought maybe because i got kicked by a horse when i was younger in my lower stomach and the doc said i could have problems getting preg when i got older and i also had a miscarriage when my ex husband hit me in the stomach when i was seven months preg and i lost the baby so when i tried getting preg with my new husband it took me a wile but my baby is due next month what I'm trying to say is don't give up if your healthy it could take up to two years i know you don't want to hear that but don't worry you will be fine
Good Luck
2006-11-13 12:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by kissesxoxo8882 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been off your birth control ?? at least a year ?? my doctor advised me to stop taking my birthcontrol 6 months prior to trying but it was a year from the time I stopped taking my birthcontrol til we conceived . .
2006-11-13 12:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rainy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try standing on your head for 5 minutes after sex.
2006-11-13 12:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋