Christmas...his father took his life 2 days after Christmas. This year it will be the 5th year without him. What can I do special to honor my father in law...for my husband? Any sugguestions would really help me...
2006-11-13 04:06:15 · 7 answers · asked by LeeLynn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is risky for us to guess since we do not know the two of you. Does he outwardly mope around? Or just get quiet? You're husband is probably angry at his father as well as sad - misses him but hates him for what he did. This is real dicey - be very careful or you might make it worse.
This will fade over time. He PROBABLY just wants to be happy himself and be well distracted by his beautiful wife and the rest of his (hopefully) nice family. I would suggest that you try not to mention it, and if he does, mostly listen. If this does not fade he might need some counselling himself. Good luck.
2006-11-13 08:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to honor someone who killed themselves 2 days after christmas, deserted his family and ruined the holiday forever? I think you should try to help you husband by getting him to think about other, happier things. Im sure he loved his dad, but his last memory of the guy isnt plesant. Not trying to sound cruel, but what you are asking is kind of hard to do.
2006-11-13 04:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, so that you want this marriage to artwork, although that's almost like he needs you to be estranged out of your household. the subsequent ideal project is counseling. First you should ascertain counseling for your self, that you'll draw close at some fairly major issues that want to be reported, because no matter if that's one project there is continually yet another. you're unhappy and depressed, so look after your aspect first to develop the flexibility you would want to address the situationg better. Then i imagine for you to study inclusive of your husband about seeing a wedding ceremony counselor, because he fairly needs to be made attentive to his habit. now and again, your major different telling you what you're doing isn't proper only would not damage the ice. do not stop seeing your household only because he would not want to. If he's composed of that factor the position he would not want you to ascertain them, then i will assert that he's fairly attempting to take administration of you. i do not understand what style of relationship you've to boot what you've given, yet only be constructive you do not damage that bondage inclusive of your household, because they understand you and characteristic been there for you, and could even as your major different isn't.
2016-11-23 19:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could get a sweet poem and a picture of father in law framed together and give it to your hubby
2006-11-13 04:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your Husband on a vacation around this time and keep him busy with activities.
2006-11-13 04:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my father died 2 days after my birthday i go to his grave sight and have a cup of coffee like we did when he was alive might sound dumb but it works for me. so he should do something he liked doin with his father when he was alive. you know what i mean?
2006-11-13 04:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by wrfab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some pussy it might make him feel better
2006-11-13 04:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋