2006-11-13 04:04:55 · 3 answers · asked by me2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hi Me. I answered your Raleigh question also. I did not realize the extent of your problem until I looked at your questions.
You don't just stop being bitter. That is human nature. The best you can do is be there for your kids because you and your ex can find other people...your children will ALWAYS only have you and your ex for a mom and a dad no matter who else comes in the picture. Move forward. Make yourself a life and DO NOT cling to his. Show him what a great person he left behind. Chances are this woman was in his life before...if he could replace you so easily then you can bet she has to wonder how easily she can be replaced. Please do not let the kids become battering rams. But you do need to keep them safe and put them first. YOU ALSO NEED TO DO THINGS FOR YOURSELF. Try and do things that make you feel sexy and worthwhile. I know the kids do but right now you need something for you or you will NEVER get rid of the bitterness....better he left after 6 1/2 yrs instead of 20, I have seen that ALOT working in legal. They stay till the kids are gone and you are older....it is even worse. You take care....Please update down the road and give a heads up on how great you will be doing. Take Care.
2006-11-15 11:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by ஐAldaஐ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start working out at a gym.. getting loads of exercise & some counselling wouldn't hurt. Not to mention that remaining bitter is only causing you grief. Try forgiving yourself & forgiving your ex. Remind yourself that.. today is a new day & this is what I'm going to do with MY life. I think basically you just need to know that there's life after marriage, that happiness is what you make of it & life goes on. You feel you got a raw deal somehow... so to stop feeling like that, start by living your life for you. Figure out just where you want to be in the next few years & start working towards it. You can't change the past, it's all ready gone, you can't stop the future, it's going to come whether you like it or not... so what you really have is today. Life your life to the fullest every single day, because you never know what's going to happen.
2006-11-13 04:16:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I don't understand why you are so bitter at an x for getting married again after 6 1/2 years. Need more details here. Him getting remarried has nothing to do with the kids either. They are still his kids.
Sorry just don't understand what you are wanting to know here. Is he not entitled to be happy?
2006-11-13 04:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋