2006-11-13 03:51:47 · 9 answers · asked by elenitsa!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am 28 years old, mature enough to have a baby. i dont want to have an abortion and i dont believe one should not marry someone only bc they will have a baby together. maybe they will divorce on day but a baby is a good reason to get married, if u re 28....
2006-11-13 06:42:03 · update #1
If you must ask on "answers" if you should marry your bf, I vote "no." Perhaps you are a bit young also. Getting married simply because you are pregnant never bodes very well for a lengthy marriage.
If you need assistance with your pregnancy and raising a baby, call a nearby Catholic Church. They always promote the birth of babies (rather than abortion). If you need to put your baby up for adoption after he or she is born, they will assist with that as well. If you choose to keep your baby and raise him or her, they have support groups called Moms to Moms ministry or something similar to help single moms cope with parenthood. You do not have to be Catholic to partake of these ministries.
May God guide you in this most important decision.
2006-11-13 04:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will you be doing after giving birth to the baby? Surfing the net? With this kind of thinking you shouldn't marry at all. And if you ever think of paid baby care service quote your rate. If its attractive, I might be willing.
2006-11-13 12:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i say dont do it. make him come to you! i just had a baby 7 months ago and like you at the time he lived far away! well i moved in with him and now i am 8 hours away from ANY family at all! i am having the worse time getting baby sitters and my family never gets to see my baby! so from personal expierance if you are close with youre mom dont ruin it over a boy! tell him if he loves you he will move their so that things will work out alot easiar! trust me if i could do it all over again i would
2006-11-13 11:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by dazeaway_fromtoday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether or not you marry him would require more information and knowledge of your situation.
As for who should take care of the baby...well you decided to play at being an adult and the baby is now your responsibility.
2006-11-13 12:00:04 · answer #4 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a proverb in hindi : 'JEESNE CHONCH DI HAI, WAHI CHUGA BHI DEGA'. means the almighty takes care of everybody.
How ever your thought is also positive and to be SALUTED.
2006-11-13 12:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you marry your baby's father, his life and yours will be pretty grim.
2006-11-13 11:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there will be invention of internet babycare!
2006-11-13 11:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't marry him
2006-11-13 11:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by jivesucka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think your mom should its your kid
2006-11-13 11:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋