I have a guy in my 4th hour class and he keeps on writting letters and notes to me and i don't like it b-cuz i have a boyfriend and i told that guy to leave me alone and i am with someone but he is not listening to me what should i do or say???
2006-11-13 03:49:25 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him again, write him back, don't pull any punches, don't sugar coat anything, don't tell him, that he's a nice guy and your not interested in him, tell him straight up.. to back off your not interested in him, you have a boy friend, and you don't want him to write you any more messages. You might of sent him mixed messages in the past, so tell him one more time to stay away, if he doesn't tell the principal or your boyfriend, because the guys is stocker, and a lain idiot
2006-11-13 03:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most everyone here. Write a very direct note without sugar coating it. Ignore him and ask to be moved to another part of the room if needed. If his behavior continues, you need to tell the teacher, principal or guidance counselor.
Even though you are in school, you are still being harassed and possibly being stalked. Harassment and stalking are ILLEGAL. If this situation is not taken care of appropriately, it could escalate and get much worse. You deserve to be treated with respect. You also deserve to be in a classroom where you feel safe and comfortable.
2006-11-13 12:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, don't talk to him look in his direction or anything and hopefully he will get the message. If you get a message and it's from him, don't even bother to read it just rip it up and throw it away. However I would say something to my boyfriend, in case the guy say's that he was only writing the letters because you responded to them and you were encouraging him. However say to your boyfriend that at the moment you can handle it, but if it does get any worse perhaps you could get your boyfriend to have a word with him
2006-11-13 11:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your boyfriend ans tell your teacher that the guy is bothering you and ask to be moved and have your teacher to keep a better eye on him because he keeps writing you inappropriate notes. if that dont stop it then go to the principle. Good Luck!!
2006-11-13 11:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your Boyfriend tell him to leave you alone. I'm sure he will listen then.
2006-11-13 11:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry this same thing is happening to me to, i always just ignore him and act as though he is just another one of my friends and soon (hopefully) he should get the message
2006-11-13 12:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsey_blair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf he should take care of that problem.
2006-11-13 11:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋