My husband and i have been married 3 months now and he left to go over seas he is in the navy and i am very lonley and i dont know what to do with myself.... i Have tried doing other things to help me but they are not workin. What should i do? I am getting over stressed because he is not here
2006-11-13 03:46:49 · 16 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should try to contact some of the other wives who's husbands are deployed. Or contact his commander's wife. I think that's who my sister talked to, at first. Her husband's in the Navy, too.
I know how desperately hard it is, but it gets a little better.
Also, spend some time looking through recipes for things you'll cook him when he's back, and shop for nice gifts to give him when he returns.
And keep a journal of the things you would be saying to him if he were home. Comments and jokes that you'd normally share.
2006-11-13 03:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1. take a yoga class (this will help you learn to handle being alone without constantly needing other people)
#2. get together with other military wives in the same circumstance
#3. join clubs related to your interests
#4. go to school to learn a good subject or trade
#5. throw yourself into a job and excel at it
#6. write him about 10 letters per day with all your feelings
#7. make him pictures and artwork
#8. write him poems and stories
#9. make up recipes you will cook for him when he gets back
#10. write fantasies for him (not just sex but having a great dinner or anything you might do together) and send them to him.
#11. get some girlfriends !
#12. paint the house, learn to be alone.
2006-11-13 11:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Sufi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are there other wives that you can talk too?? They might help put your mind at ease. I know that it has to be tough with him so far away.Take it from somebody whose Hubby never goes away, enjoy it. You have some freedom that I don't. Please don't stress. He will be back before you know it. Join a club or support group. Talk out your feelings with a loved one. Get a cat?? You will be fine. Good luck!
2006-11-13 12:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make some friends. Visit your family more. Take some classes. Get a job. All of the above.
2006-11-13 11:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You didnt say whether or not you live on base...if you do, well thats easy...become friends with the other lonely spouses.If not, I'm sure you can figure out where to find a support group for military families..
2006-11-13 11:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~LAX Mom~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient and things will work out for the better. Maybe you can consider undertaking a trip to the place where he will be stationed next. You can then meet him there.
2006-11-13 11:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sami V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby or try to find other military wives to get together with and hang out.
2006-11-13 11:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by woodyhou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself buzy 24/7 go exercising daily, shopping, maybe get a dog? or some kind of animal? to keep you occupied just till he gets home, hang in there. good luck.
2006-11-13 11:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by tabatha1333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get yourself a job to keep yourself busy and hang out with friends and family. I pray he comes home safe
2006-11-13 11:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go place like the movies, the mall, and park with your best friends.
go see your family for more support, and dont forget to talk to your boo
2006-11-13 11:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋