I have pain whenever i have sex?

Question

in the beginning of the intercourse when the penis is let inside the pain arises but subsides while doing it..please help...is it common to have such pain

Answer 1

GET IT CHECKED SOME INTERNAL INJURY. TAKE ANTIBIOTIC FOR 3 DAYS AND AVOID SEX IN BETWEEN.

Answer 2

If the pain is on the outside edge or entrance, you might need to relax and use lube. Try being on top.

If the pain is deeper inside, bring it up at your next checkup. It could be he's pushing against parts of your body that have shifted around since you got pregnant. Try going to the bathroom before you have sex.

If the pain gets worse, stop. As a rule, pain is your body's way of saying "hey, pay attention."

Answer 3

I think everyone missed the point. Aren't you pregnant already? Anyway, that's the title of this forum. If you experience pain initially and then it subsides, I think it's because the cervix is very sensitive and soft right now. The pain reaction may be like a warning "intruder alert!" so to speak. When pregnant there are other positions that make lovemaking more comfortable and enjoyable. Try it either from behind, or lay on top of him if you can (or at least lean forward) so that you control the penetration.

Answer 4

sexual pain may be due to stress,depression or some other psychological condition.But there may be some physical abnormality also.So it is better to move to a doctor before the condition worsen.
It is due to infection.Vaginal yeast and bacterial infection may reduce the lubrication and itching and may cause problem in the opening of vagina.In urinary tract infection,there may be pressure on tender inflammed wall of bladder that cause pain during sex.Abdominal pain during sex may be due to sexually transmitted disease chlamydia.left untreated may cause pelvic inflamatory disease,which make sex unbearable.
It may be due to endometriosis in which the tissue from the lining of uterus grows into the areas of uterus such as vagina or pelvis,where it becomes inflammed.Endometriosis may be treated with the drugs which temporarily supress eastrogen production.Birth control pills also helpful.
If you feel that the pain is due to urinary tract infection and the antibiotics are not giving relief,then the condition is due to interstitial cystitus,in which the bladder is inflammed and there is pelvic pain durin sex,drug Elmiron may be helpful,but you should go to doctor.
Pain may due to vulvodynia,in which the vulva of the vagina is inflammed,at the opening of vagina there may be pain.surgery can reduce the pain.
if you are breast feeding or approaching menopausal then the condition may be due to hormonal change,which reduce the vaginal secreation and cause pain.
The above symptoms can be reduced by taking the following medication-
SUNDARI KALP FORTE
ASHOKARISHTA
PUSHYANUG CHURNA
RAJAHPRAVARTINI BATI

Answer 5

Well, are you sure that you're "ready" when your partner starts to enter you? I know myself that if I'm not, it can be a bit painful at first and then subside as we get going.

Maybe you need more foreplay before the actual intercourse starts, or maybe the two of you need to get some lubricant to help you out a bit. Try them both!! Sometimes adding a little massage oil or lotion can be exciting!

Answer 6

Well if you just started then its normal cuz when I got married I had very bad pain too everytime after the act and it was difficult to walk too...but gradually it reduced and happened only if we had it twice or thrice in the same day but after sometime it disappeared completely. It used to feel that the skin got sore of the friction.....but if it persists for a long time then you should see a doc.

Answer 7

OK,I'm a married woman and can tell you allot of times when a man wants you he just REALLYYY wants you and cant help it!
but a woman needs to be kissed& touched and all that you know just because he's a man doesint mean he understands what you need...what you can do is give him hints like tilt your head so he can kiss your neck tell him what you want you can even demand him you know like role play men love a woman who knows what she wants and aint scared to ask! but....BUT!!... if thats not the problem...you have to see a doctor it can be an std god forbid and can be treated if you take care of it as soon as possible. i had an experiance were i had pain cause my man cut me down there with his claws lol. theres plenty reasons why woman have pain down there if its not an std its nothing.

Answer 8

Well you must relax and let yourself go...also it helps if your partner can give you oral sex so you get really wet and it helps...in easing the pain...you might also try a different position first like doggie style..it's less painful when you are getting it from the back...

Answer 9

no not if you have been active for a while. if this just started and you have been with your guy for a while then you may want to take a hard look at why you are with him. if it is your first time or close to it you need to tell your guy that you need a little more foreplay and maybe a little oral before he just rams it in there.
basically your to tense and that can come from many many things but basically if you are unable to relax then you will always have pain. and if your not into your guy or he is just gunning for his own then you know that and your tensing up and causeing yourself pain.

Answer 10

As per my knowledge there can b possibly 2 reasons for it,
1) You must not be sufficiently aroused so not well lubricated down there or,
2) You must be having preconceived wrong information regarding the thing,if this is the case try 2 relax before the process.

Answer 11

No - this is not common. this means ur man is inept at the art of making love...

Follow my advice (i am a gyno):
1. tell him to lick u down there atleast for 15 mins
2. after that tell him to put his finger inside and see if liquid is there (his finger shld be wet)
3. if no, continue licking for another 10 mins
4. if yes, slowly insert it in you and gently make love (no hard pushing).