Wife and I were recently invited to one. We will not go because we have children at home. Would not ever risk negative affects on them. Second to that is I am a professional in the area and at this stage in my carrier I would not risk negative affects if something got out. But in 12 or so years who knows. It holds some interest for both wife and I. Has anyone had experience with something like this? Good or Bad?
2006-11-13 03:20:25 · 14 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First you have to understand that no one at one of those places will tell anyone else who was there because they don't want anyone else to know they were there. Also, for the reputable places they have serious rules and one of them is no talking out side of the party. It is an absolute. You get banned from all of the swingers groups in your area and you are a pariah. Also, you have to think of it as a lifestyle. It is not just a one time thing. You are making a move to a new lifestyle. It can be good or bad, but both of you have to be for it. Any good swingers group has an orientation session. Go to one and ask questions. They have heard every question you can think of and won't be offended.
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2016-12-15 22:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I did, without my husband. He was not really into it yet. I do not do it any more, but at the time, it was a totally different experience from any that you have ever known. The ones I went to were all in secret. People from different fields of occupations. But it is a relaxed atmosphere and everybody is free to feel what they want to. I would not go back and do it again.
It is dangerous for the sexual diseases you can get. You have to be careful.
2006-11-13 03:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by chocoholic_40 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm happy to hear that you are thinking about your children and the possible "damage" this could cause. Many people are too selfish to even take that into consideration. Also, being a "professional" in your area could most definitely "create" potential problems for you.
However, I think it's sad that something so potentially "destructive" to a relationship could still "hold some interest" to both of you. I honestly believe that the "damage" this can cause far outweighs any possible "benefits" either of you could gain.
My husband and I have been married for 34 years and raised three children. I understand that things can sometimes get "comfortable" and a bit "boring". But there's also something wonderful about having that "safe place" in this world. About being able to "trust" and "rely" on your partner, no matter what life throws at you.
It's easy to look around when you're "comfortable" and think about other "possibilities". But to actually "act" on these impulses can be a huge mistake. "The grass isn't always greener on the other side".
The people we know who have "opened" that box, all wish they had never done so. Even the ones who thought this was "great" in the beginning, soon found out the the damage it caused their families far outweighed any momentary "enjoyment" they experienced.
Looking "outside" the marriage for any reason is wrong, and it never solves anything. If you and your wife are getting a little "bored" with things, there are lots of options you can work on together to "spice things up".
You have a family to think about. Any decision you make doesn't just affect your partner, it affects your children also. You sound like an intelligent person who is just a little "bored" with your "comfortable" life. I think with a little work and some new ideas you and your wife can come up with a much better "solution"!
I wish you all the best.
Best of luck to you both.
2006-11-13 03:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
We have had some experience there. I would recommend starting with smaller groups or just one other couple to see how you like it.
As for the privacy issues, try going to another city. The obvious ones are Las Vegas or Miami (both have a great adult lifestyle scene), but most larger cities have lifestyle parties.
Good luck!
2006-11-13 03:28:59 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your playing with fire but what the hell you only live once. Our experimentation with swapping was good but also bad. You have to be strong to avoid getting jealous or thinking that you are getting the raw end of the deal. My wife enjoys the tenderness and she got heaps from her swap partner and my swap partner liked hard core porno so I enjoyed it. My wife has sex to enjoy the closeness and tenderness where I just liked the sense of banging another chick. It was hot. Yeah Yeah.
2006-11-13 03:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by spils 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I haven't had an experience like this and never will. If you love your wife and she loves you, Why do u wanna go and have sex with someone else?? It's a receipe for a split.
2006-11-13 03:25:32 · answer #10 · answered by Carm 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋