Is it true that some American women don`t like to have kids because this can risk thier chances of having a boyfriend?
2006-11-13 03:19:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok.... here's some honesty. It depends on age, income and other factors.
At my age, I have already raised my kids and do not want anymore. When you have kids around, and a man in your life, sex is limited to when the kids are gone or asleep. The idea of having sex free and spontaneous is inviting to me. Why would I want to start a new family now?
For a younger woman, if they aren't married, why would they want to have kids to raise alone? It's a hard life, being a single mother and I know this from experience.
Some men actually look for single mothers to date. It is about the individual's choices.
No woman should want to have a child when they are not married as a child needs two parents.
Young women are sometimes developing a career before they choose to start having children.
Some young, unmarried girls, get pregnant because they lack love in there life and want someone to love them and/or to draw welfare and be emancipated. This is messed up. You don't have a child to have someone to love you. You have a child because you have love to give. And the welfare thing.... anyone with a sense of morals and understanding realizes why that reason is wrong.
Everyone has their own reasons for having a child, or not having a child. I do not think you can make a blanket statement about it.
Again.... spontaneous sex is a good reason for me! LOL
Sue
2006-11-13 03:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women should not have children out of wedlock, not for moral
reasons but it is not good for the kids and it leaves the Woman and kids legally unprotected in life..
I have never heard the comment that they don't want kids because
it limits their boyfriends, I suppose that might be true in a few cases but that would not be any more the case for American women than for women of any other nation..
2006-11-13 03:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not just for American women but any kind of woman on this planet.
The question would be, "Would it be easy for a guy to accept if his girlfriend already has a child"
2016-11-19 22:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by Fellyne P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are women like that in America, as I would imagine other parts of the world, also. Its probably good they don't have children, because they are too selfish.
2006-11-13 03:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by meggs4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, yeah!
What kinda guy wants to be with a girl who's had a whole bunch of kids by different baby daddies?
2006-11-13 03:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably true for SOME women in EVERY country.
There sure is a lot of misinformation out there about the USA--no wonder they hate us, when they've been told all these terrible LIES!
2006-11-13 03:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure. And some just don't want them for other reasons.
2006-11-13 03:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its partially true. but it only applies for some women, not all.
2006-11-13 03:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well now........... I think the boyfriend or husband should come before having children.
2006-11-13 03:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-13 03:21:15 · answer #10 · answered by splisspl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋