my husband needs to know some good sex tips... he thinks he's learned the things he needs to know from porno... yea right!!! LOL... anyways, i've tried talking to him... i've tried to tell him wha ti like and how to do it (he doens't listen)... i've also tried to get him to read a book to self educate... he refuses to read anything b/c he says he doens't like to read... so... please give me some advice on what i should do... b/c i'm begining to not wanna have sex with him anymore... thanks
2006-11-13 03:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by brandiamour 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tough call if he's so unwilling to listen to you, or take your advice about educating himself through books and other materials.
Either tell him to change his ways, or tell him you're going to find a replacement player.
2006-11-13 03:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all porn is a big no. cause he is getting way more out of it than you are. now have you tried telling him what you want during the act? Cause usto tell my ex what I liked and how to do it. Try saying "it really turns me on when you do this" or "it was so hot when you did this" or just flat out start rejecting him until he listens. good luck
2006-11-13 11:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are "Sex for Dummys" videos.
I'm not talking porn, but actual educational video with naked people having sex. I remember seeing one at a bachelor party of course there was also a "blow up sheep" there too so I can't tell you the quality of the video. Watch it with hubby and he might learn something.
2006-11-13 11:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u've got to be gentle when u tell him this but it has to be said. "honey im not satified in bed" if cares @ all he'll want to work on it. dont try to tell him stuff just kinda take the lead in bed few times and when he does good let him know.
2006-11-13 11:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know instead of getting him to read a book.....get together, and if you are the better lover show him the way lol.
2006-11-13 11:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you find out what you want to try and in mid act, get into position, he will find he really likes it!
Sometimes you have to take charge of your own happyness, and not leave it all up to him.
2006-11-13 11:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by crystald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read it to him, show him.
2006-11-13 11:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy novelties
2006-11-13 11:22:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋