To the general population - do you think it is positive or negative for marriages.
For those who are swingers, why did you get into it and is it still positive for your relationship
2006-11-13 03:01:09 · 7 answers · asked by bocasbeachbum 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whether or not its beneficial depends on how thoroughly the two partners have discussed it beforehand and how mature they are; this is why swingers tend to be older couples who have been together a while.
We tried it and decided that the lifestyle wasn't for us - we weren't prepared to make that step into group sex, so we remained just 'open'.
2006-11-13 03:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Very negative and wrong. A marriage is a commitment of two people - and it is disrespectful to become swingers while married. If you're just dating, have at it. But marriage is sacred.
2006-11-13 11:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I do not agree with it. Spice up a marriage a different way. The point of getting married is to be with only that one person.
2006-11-13 11:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think it would be negative. But that is my 2 cents.
2006-11-13 12:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is horrible, marriage is between 2 people and sex is part of marriage.
2006-11-13 11:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I believe in monogamy, hopefully I'm not being naive.
2006-11-13 11:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're both into it, then why not?
2006-11-13 11:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋