My friend was messing around with a married man and instead of the wife getting mad at her husband she got mad with my friend (which she has the right too but...) why doesn't she blame him just as much. He was the one foundling her.
2006-11-13 03:00:11 · 9 answers · asked by highschoolshorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Trust me, the wife is fully aware that her husband is guilty...she also feels ashamed too, like it is somehow her fault. But she has to live with him so is more willing to forgive him than the bimbo he is messing around with. Your friend should run away from this situation before something bad happens to her.
2006-11-13 03:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see your point in this 110%, but how do you know that the wife did not rip her husband a new one AFTER they got home? I am sure that she would not do that in public. But I would let his tramp know right there on the spot that she needed to find a man that didn't have someone already and then tell him that I would talk to him when we got home.I wouldn't be yelling and making a scene in public either. I know that if I was the wife and caught my husband cheating on me, I would wait until we were at home and then let him HAVE IT !!!!!!!!
IF your friend knew he was married and still messed with him or let him mess with her, your friend got what she deserved from the wife.
IF your friend did not know that he was married, and the wife fronted her about it, she should have told the wife, hey I am sorry but I had no clue that he was married and now that I know he is, I want no part of him. And then stay away from him totally!!
2006-11-13 04:05:36 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she did was absolutley right . she has to put up with her husband so she will give him another chance, but how stuid your friend could be if she has to elope with a married man ? Is she sadistic ? does she like to ruin peoples lives ? are there less men per women in your country that you have to share married men?
My question to you : WHat if your friend was having an affair with your husband/BF ? Would you spare her?
2006-11-13 03:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sun2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need better friends.
Women do this for reasons unknown to me. It is really sad when they will take the husband back and hate the female, take a cue from this and never have a relationship w/a married man.
2006-11-13 03:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by sideways 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She should be mad at him the most!!! He is the one who should be thinking of his wife and he knows what he is doing is wrong. I would only be pissed at her if she knew he was married. And if she was a friend that makes her just as bad as him. If she didnt know he was married she didnt do anything wrong and if she did she is a home wrecking B****!
2006-11-13 03:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They usually do get mad at the husband also. Don't worry, the lass will make him pay. And tell your friend to stop screwing with married men!
2006-11-13 03:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Foundling ....Foundling
An abandoned child
2006-11-13 03:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when you really love someone (husband) you are piss'd and want to hurt the woman you think caused the problem, you dont want the thought of your husband being a dog in your mind.
2006-11-13 03:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I am SURE she was furious at him.
There's no way NOT to be mad....
You should drop that friend---she can't be a very nice person if she does things like that!!!
2006-11-13 03:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋