2006-11-13 02:54:53 · 14 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey women cheat too, its not just the men.
2006-11-13 02:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by xXMichelleXx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kat, your question is unfair. If men are cheating on their wives, you have to ask yourself, who are they cheating with? Women and many times, the other woman is married as well. Why do people cheat? For attention, because the other person makes them feel good, feel important, feel valued, the excitement of the risk and as some people will tell you, for the variety.
How do you make them all yours? I always tell people to get the mystery back into the marriage, make him chase you again, do not be so available... Guys are very basic and if you think of it as a challenge, they will respond 90% of the time, but if they feel they have conquered the challenge, they get bored.
2006-11-13 03:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women cheat on men as well. I am a man and I have never cheated on anybody. People often cheat on eachother because they can get away with it. If you know you are going to be forgiven after a week or two. Why not go for it. As far as I'm concerned cheat on me and you'll be sent packing. I make this abundantly clear from the outset of a relationship. No second chances here.
2006-11-13 03:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by sleekwalrus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am female and i think women can answer this better than the men. What you must remember is that not all men cheat. The reason that some men cheat is because all they think about is S E X. They do not think about anything else and they only think with their p e n i s.
2006-11-13 03:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Patti T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many different reasons why guys cheat on their wives,, and why wives cheat on their husbands.
There are often underlying reasons which may cause partners to stray, sometimes its simply the fact that they can!. Other times its down to lack of communication, and trust!..
Its hard to suggest what you can do to insure loyalty and fidelity!, i guess all you can do is to try your best to make home life great! don't neglect sex by having headaches / don't nag / and keep an eye on the phone /credit card bills.
2006-11-13 03:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men, husbands, guys in general, I, me, heein referred to as "I" just to keep it easy.
"I" cheat cause it give "me" that feeling that you had when the first girl kissed you. That tingley feeling in your stomace. That feeling that your the best, first, last, and only one that can turn this woman on. She makes you feel like your a winner. She is not gonna take the place of the wife. She knows that. That makes her more attractive. "I" will go home to the loving wife with a sense of real confidence. Knowing that no matter what she, wife, negatively says or does I am a man and someone out there accepts me for me.
2006-11-13 03:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves ya then ya ain't gotta worry bout that. Keepin him satisfied sexually really helps too. Most men who cheat r not satisfied sexually by their wives so they look elsewhere. If ya r always puttin him off fer sex or flat out sayin 'no' or not willin to do this or that then he'll find someone who will. Others think they need to 'do it' w/as many women as possible. Those r the pigs of the male gender.
2006-11-13 03:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by OLD BALLS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking to forgo 100 million years of evolution because some one 1000 years ago wanted to control you and made up all these rules.
Most of the world allows or accepts multiple partners in marriage, the monogamy group is actually a minority. Where it is accepted and done correctly there are fewer problems and divorces.
If you can begin to understand the male of the species, it is a biological imperative to spread his seed, or at least to attempt to spread it, as much as possible. Now you are asking him to forgo the third strongest drive in the male of the species, right after breathing and eating, because some one else said you are supposed to. It ain't gonna work.
2006-11-13 03:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat,not all women cheat.You can't "make" anyone be yours,everyone is their own person,no one owns us,we don't own anyone,we are all individuals.You need professional help if you have issues with this.
2006-11-13 21:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
since the beginning of time man looks for the woman to :
1) have children and keep the mankind.
2) to enjoy having sex with his woman.
for a woman to keep her man from leaving her, she should be a different woman often this is done for ex. by renewing her hair style , the way she dresses, the make up,....and so on
by this u make him ALL URS .... :)
if a man get bored from his woman this means HELL !!
2006-11-13 03:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Aladdin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋