I met a girl when I was 16 and since then I have been crazy in love with her should I tell her?
We lost contact after high school and now 10 years later we are talking again. She however is in a relationship and I just got out of a 2 year relationship. Its great talking to her again I just don't know if I should share with her how I feel in fear it may ruin a great friendship.
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We are both lesbians and she has been in a relationship for 3 years. I just got out of a 2 yr relationship. Now we mostly communicate via email.
2006-11-13 02:16:00 · 8 answers · asked by Phoenix77 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i'd tell her whats the worst that can happen you find out shes not itnreted then you can move on or she might tell you if things dont work out with her current she'll call you or maybe she'll dump her current for you. you'll never know if you dont try. whats the worst that coudl happen and is it that bad? isnt not knowing worst?
2006-11-13 02:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't just blurt it out, since she's in a relationship. You could send out "feelers", letting her know you are interested, but since she's involved with someone for 3 yrs, she may chose to ignore or set your feelings aside. Just because you have strong feelings for someone, doesn't mean you should be inappropriate with them. Beside, even if she dumped her present gf, to be with you, would you really want that? If she's that flighty, what goes around comes around and the same thing could happen to you one day.
2006-11-13 02:41:57 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she additionally a lesbian? If she's in a relationship with a guy, that's an argument, and you will likely lose your friendship. If she's in a relationship with another woman, then you definately ought to verify no depend if that's attainable.
2016-10-22 00:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by corl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she happy in her relationship? Do you know if she liked you? If she was happy in her relationship then don't say anything, but go for it if she is not happy, let her make the decision if she is happy or not.
2006-11-13 03:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're interested in her, but value your friendship first, and that you're willing to wait until she is available again.
2006-11-13 03:22:49 · answer #5 · answered by Natalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead - tell her
better regret a thing, than wish you had done it.
2006-11-13 02:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go ahead and let her know how you feel..
2006-11-13 04:19:23 · answer #7 · answered by sexylilles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure
2006-11-13 02:37:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋