Does it bother you if he has a female friend?
2006-11-13 01:53:43 · 11 answers · asked by S K 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it has not bothered me. When I met my husband, he had mostly female friends, it's just his nature, and his personality. I have actually become good friends with a few of his woemn friends and we do things together often. I have absolute trust in my husband and that allows me the freedom to not be bothered by his friends, no matter what their gender is. I actually had no problem with him still having a friendship with his ex-wife. It's all about trust to me, and his is 100%.
2006-11-13 01:58:03 · answer #1 · answered by mercymarie3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i like some, and some i don't like. they are HIS friends, male or female...it's not my business who he keeps as a friend. nor does he have any say over mine.
it doesn't bother me if he has any female friends...i know where he sleeps, next to ME!
he's military i know where his butt is all the time anyway, and with 3 kids...we usually hang together (which we love).
we have BBQs and parties at our house and invite each others friends over. i tolerate the ones i don't like much, and he does the same for me.
marriage is a friendship too, (or freakin should be) and compromise is what makes it work.
if your going to be selfish and insecure i can see why it might bother some ppl to be upset about ones spouse having a friendship w/the opposite sex.
i would never be married to a person that was that insecure. trust, honesty, friendship and love....that's what matters. and that has worked for us for the 6yrs we've been married. (9 yrs total together)
2006-11-13 02:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time. Sometimes I feel like these single girls my husband hangs out with want to get into his pants. Mostly because my husband is military and I have seen a lot of married couples cheat on people because they are younger or prettier. Either way it makes me uneasy because I know how us women can be and I don't trust them. I will talk to them and get to know them and I can not tell my husband who he can and can not hang out with, so either way I deal with it. It just makes me uneasy sometimes, especially if the girl is pretty and has sex appeal.
-Sara Lynn
2006-11-13 01:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sara K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I dont ! I married 2 men that have no friends and a female would be no good!
2006-11-13 02:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by jessy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really doesn't bother me as long as I see no flirting and she only comes around when I am around. What ever happend to the times where guys would be in the back yard horsen around and women in the house gossiping? If your wife doesn't agree to this maybe you need to consider her feelings. Not just your own
2006-11-13 02:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by mommys_girl1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I let my husband has female friend, it's not a problem to me but he don't like me chating with male guys.....
2006-11-13 02:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by *Cutie* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long they have known each other.
If they haven't been around that long, then yes to a certain extent.
If they have grown up together then no whatever that could of been would of been.
2006-11-13 01:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the most part. No matter what I have to respect that they are there and make him happy, so who am I to judge them?
2006-11-13 02:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, but female friends?...it depends on the female.
2006-11-13 01:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by mimi22 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DEPENDS, ON THE HISTORY WITH THE GIRL. WOULD IT BOTHER YOU IF SHE HAD STRAIGHT, MALE FRIENDS? AGAIN, THAT WOULD DEPEND. JUST REMEMBER WHAT IS GOOD FOR YOU NEEDS TO BE GOOD FOR HER, AND VICE-VERSA.
2006-11-13 01:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by Keepin it real 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋