Hi, to all of you, I am 20, and alone, my parent is dead about 10 years ago, My parents has get divore and remarry to others when I was small, but now they are no more. I am Graphics Designer, and also preparing for competitive exams, My problem, is a girl, who is my friend for 4 years, previous 2 years was of decent friendship, but after that, we both proposed to each other, that time she told me, yes. But after some time, she told me to just be a good friend, because she don't want to hurt her parent, and want to marry wherever her parent will decide, she has a soft corner for me, but don't want to marry me, just because of my family background. But she also want to keep, a friendship, even after marriage. She Love me, but don't confase due to her parent. What should I do, I am so confused, I have both a relation with her, Friendship and Love, What should I do. Keep a relation or Breakup. I am crazy about him, I love her. She is First and Last girl in My life. Please help me, Thanks.
2006-11-13 01:42:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In india, Marriage and Divorce in so importance to People Life, Thats why, she is scared to takeup any decision. I can't understand, Whats my fault, if my parents had get divorce after their love marriage. I just know one thing that I am love with him. Please I want answer of this question, Specially from Indian Girl, But I also respect to answer of other girl. What should I have to do, to proof my self, and to marry him. Whenever I saw him, she just look into my eyes with love and honesty, but whenever I am away from him, she even don't have a time to call me, Is her reaction is truth or she is just cheating me. Do girls also take a boys as a timepass ?. Whatever, I Love Him with Honesty, I don't want to hurt her and always respect of his feeling but I want a solution of this problem. Whether to forgot him, or Try to Marry him. What should I have to do to Proof Myself. Thanks again in advance. Whatever Your Opinion I will respect to all of you. Thanks again.
2006-11-13 01:54:12 · update #1
It sounds like she made her decision to follow her parents wishes. You need to move on. I know you love her, but you will never be her first priority and you will have to fight her parents for the rest of your life. I think it will be very hard, but you need to get on with your life. Someday you will find someone else you can love this much and they will be able to love you back enough to choose you over everything else. I think that is worth waiting for. You need to get away from this girl completely. If you keep a friendship you will never get over her and will always be waiting for her to come to you. If she does get married to someone else how would you like to watch her make a life with him? It would be very painful for you and if she loves you she wouldn't ask you to do that. And if she loves you it would be a temptation to her if you were there. She may end up cheating on her husband with you and that could destroy her life. So, it would be better for both of you to say goodbye now and move in different directions. Good luck.
2006-11-13 01:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by CamKeeTai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that the friendship is the most important.
2006-11-13 20:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man keep the friendship show your nationality hindustan ke puttar ho aur itna jigar nahi.
if your love is true then u should have comfort in seeing her happy at least u end happily.its important to keep u beloved one happy not u in love. atlast its ur choice
2006-11-13 02:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by apoorv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you would be marrying her family and they sound like butt heads find another woman to love or take her away from her crazy parents
2006-11-13 01:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my advice is dont get advice about that serious of stuff on here...also...you need to talk to her not us...im not being mean seriously you just need to sit down with her and tell her what is going on inside of you...that is the best way to resolve it...
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2006-11-13 02:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely if her mum and dad have one of those enormous say perhaps you should communicate over consisting of her mum and dad and ask for his or her permission to marry their daughter. contained in the former days it really is what the adult adult males did.
2016-11-29 02:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD THE SAME INCIDENT I SUGGEST YOU THAT KEEP HER FRIENDSHIP BY KEEPING THE FRIENDSHIP BOTH OF THEM WUD NOT BE HURTED
2006-11-13 01:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋