2006-11-13 01:38:40 · 23 answers · asked by hazeleyedgirl 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Have you talked to a doctor or a school couselor at all? They can lend a lot of support. Be up front with the father and your parents. The sooner you tell them the easier things will be. No matter what your parents do or howthey react, remember what they are going through and remember that they love you very much.
2006-11-13 01:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is a loaded question. First of all you do need to talk to the father. Second, you need to discuss this with your parents...you have no choice due to your age! Yes, your parents will be upset but they can help you work this out, hopefully with the father's family also. I know your scared but carrying it around and waiting is going to make it worse and lower your options(if there are any). Get it off your chest and deal with it okay! Take care hun and Good luck!
2006-11-13 01:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Harleygal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents first because you are very young nad you need medical attention right away. Your bady is still growing and now you have a baby gowing inside of you. This way your parents can help you tell the boyfriend about the baby. You will fell more secure with your parents knowing first too.You don't know how the boyfriend will react and obviously you are not comfortable telling him or you wouldn't be asking this question. Think about all the teen you aee on TV that disapear and now one knows where they are, well this may happen so please be safe about telling the boyfriend. He may lose his temper, go of the deepend, or he may handle it great but you neer know. This way you can tell him in a safe secure place. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-13 01:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by mommy of two 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be honest with your parents and tell them. And the sooner the better. You shouldn't have to go through this alone. I don't know your parents, but I hope they love you and will help you through this and give you support. Maybe they can even help you tell the father and his parents (if he is the same age as you they also should know that you are pregnant with his child.) I hope things go well for you. You have a tough situation to deal with.
2006-11-13 01:44:17 · answer #4 · answered by CamKeeTai 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all make sure you are pregnant with a home test before you panic. At your age it is very common to skip a month with your period.
Then tell your mother first, mothers tend to be more understanding, and she can help tell your dad.
Next tell the babies father he has the right to know as well.
Finally you will have to tell the fathers parents.
And after that you will need to see a doctor to confirm the home test and get proper prenatal care.
2006-11-13 01:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think carefully about what you're going to say before you tell them. If you want to keep the baby, let them know you're going to be responsible and look after it yourself.
Yes there will probably be crying & shouting etc, but give them time to get used to the idea.
As for telling the father, just come out and say it. It's then his decision whether he wants a part in the baby's life.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 02:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think your parents won't find out?!?!
Sorry for your problem but unless your parents have already kicked you out of the house, you have no options other than telling your parents NOW(!), and telling him and his parents with your parents' guidance. You're in for a rough time. It's best to do the right thing instead of hiding this from your parents. Your parents will still be your parents even after you're 18 y/o.
2006-11-13 01:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents first. Boys come and go, but you will need them most of all. They can help you come up with a plan to keep the baby, or find a loving family who can take great care of your child. This baby can be a blessing. It is scary when grown-up things happen to kids, but with your parents' help, you'll be fine.
2006-11-13 01:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by HD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to an adult soon to learn more about what all of your options are, and where you can go from here. If you don't have a close relationship with your parents and you don't want to talk to them, you could try talking to an unbiased doctor or counselor first, someone who will give you all of your options without trying to sway you one way or the other. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!
2006-11-13 03:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is decide on a day and tell them. They're gonna find soon anyways. Does your school have a teen parenting class? You need to show your parents that you're gonna be responsible. You need to decide if your gonna keep the baby or not? Dont let anyone try to decide for you.
2006-11-13 01:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋