why does this happen...anyone whom i care for or who ever i know tels me something that i feel was rude..i take it so seriously that i start crying..what is the matter with me ...why am i acting such way
2006-11-13 01:36:10 · 8 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just means you have a good heart don't ever lose that...
2006-11-13 01:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be very senstive. You need to toughen up and stop having unrational beliefs. You can't let every little thing get to you or you'll waste a good part of your life being hurt and upset. If someone doesn't greet you at school or work, do you get upset? If someone doesn't notice your new outfit or hairdo, do you get upset? They probably aren't doing things like that to hurt you, you are just assuming they are. You are getting offended too easily.
If they say rude things, stand up for yourself and say something like..."Well, that hurt my feelings." Don't say it angrily, say it lightly so they will know it hurt you and possibly they will be more aware of how they talk to you next time.
Use your words, people don't always know they are hurting someone else if they are talking to them. Sometimes they do though, just tell them nicely. "You know, that really upsets me when you treat me like this."
You could possibly have depression too, seeing a psychiatrist could be beneficial.
Good luck, toughen up a bit my friend!
2006-11-13 09:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by 7aliens 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably it reminds oyu of a deeper pain.
when they tell you, you are rude - how does this make you feel?
what kind of person would be treated that way? (ie if you heard someon was being treated that way - what woudl you think o fthem)
when did you last experience this feelings?
Its probably just an old movie sound track playing in the back of your head -
2006-11-13 09:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every town has a community mental health clinic. Sometimes counseling is the answer if you are having emotional problem.....especially if you were physically, sexually or emotionally abused as a child.
2006-11-13 10:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps u care too much about what others feel about you.. like if they think you are not as good, or said that you are not good enough... you feel really hurt.... tt's why crying comes... when emotional flows becomes beyond control.........
2006-11-13 09:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe because you really care about what people says about you or you really care of what that person says
2006-11-13 09:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by litos1227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are a very sensitive person
2006-11-13 09:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mary Smith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay...your human! others are not crying they are inhuman!
2006-11-13 09:43:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋