THE last time my wife and I had sex,she joke that i *** to fast that i should take vaigar.Even though it was said in a joke,however,in my mind i'm thinking that she's not being satisfied.So now when we try to have sex my body is there ,but in my mind i'm woundering is she going to be satisfied, is it big enough,ect.My question is by me thinking that way can that cause me to have "Erectile Disfunction"?
2006-11-13 01:15:32 · 12 answers · asked by thomas p 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
yes performance anxiety can cause this.. you and her need to work together to delay ejaculation, many means available to do this.
2006-11-13 01:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by David B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, theres a lot of questions here. first of all, stress will definetly cause erectile disfunction. i am 25, my wife and i almost split up, and it took a second to get it up for a little while. when it comes to penis size and sexual performance, you don't want to hear jokes like that from your wife. what you need to do is: 1. make the sex more interesting. do more foreplay for example. oral sex is great. one wise guy that answered before me said hummer (aka dildo) actually not a bad idea. think about it...satisfy her before you even get started. its not masturbation if you are using it on her, remember. 2. have sex more often and try to last as long as you can everytime. its like exercise; train yourself. and 3, don't worry about it. easier said then done i know, but just don't think about it. get excited about trying new things. take her to an adult store and see what she thinks. you might learn something about your wife.
2006-11-13 04:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by asslpman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would suggest is that just ignore it. This is a fact that Sex is purely a psychological game. Since ou have the guilt that you are not able to satisfy your wife, You are facing htat. Sex is more than performance. You can enjoy more time is fore play identify the parts she feels more sensual. Then you can also spent time in fingering her vagine. This way she will be more excited. then as soon as you insert, she would go mad. In that case even if you ejaculate fast, she would be satified. Also you can delay the ejaculation by taking out your penis as soon as you feel its ejaculating. You can relax for few seconds by continuing foreplay during this period. Come out of your male ego. If you identify that she is not satified talk to her and try to understands, what her more enjoyable. Dont think of any of those medicines as this age of yours. As there are lots of side affects. Try natural even if you feel you ejaculate fast. Be normal. Problem will be solved automatically.
2006-11-13 02:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people over look stress. What the mind believes the body will do. So if you think your not good enough - you wont be!!Calm down relax and have fun. If you continue to worry it will only make it worse. Watch what you eat. Fatty and cholesterol foods block veins and arteries everywhere in the body. Exercising sends blood rushing through the body giving vital nutrients and cleans out these areas as well.
Good luck and have fun
2006-11-13 01:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by green machine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stress definitely plays a big part in a man's sexual functioning. You might want to talk to her up front to see if she is really being satisfied or if she was truly joking. Also let her know that Viagra is not something that will prevent a man from climaxing too fast. It may allow you to keep the erection going longer even if you climax, but it won't prevent it from happening too soon.
2006-11-13 01:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by DJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ED can be caused by too much stress. Relaxing is the key--that explains morning w**d. Try foreplay a lot and when she is worked up you will hopefully have no problem getting in the mood.
2006-11-13 01:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by chad t777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It concerns about men's health. Today, we have lots of product to overcome erectile dysfunction. Some of the branded one others are just copy of that means generic. There are herbal products also. Since more successful stories are about viagra products. Viagra products are available in 100mg and 50mg.
There is another issue with branded products are most expensive than generic viagra .Since both are same ,branded drugs manufacturer try to cover their R&D cost from customers. and generic drugs does not. generic drugs maker also does R&D as of branded drugs but they never try to cover cost from customers. Generic Drugs are well known pharma companies. These are Ranbaxy,Ajanta Pharma,Sun Pharma ,Cadila,
2006-11-13 02:27:50 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not alone - Sexual pain caused by vaginismus affects hundreds of thousands of people from all walks of life. Poorly understood and rarely discussed even within the medical community, vaginismus often causes people to suffer in silence.
good u opened ur mouth
2006-11-13 03:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things could have an effect contribuiting to ED. Diet, stress, evironmental stress, etc. Before you do anything to correct the problem, contact your doctor first. If anything, he or she should know how to treat it. Also it doesn't hurt to do your research, too.
2006-11-13 01:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by javon56 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in most case the moment u worry that whether u will be able to satisfy her then ur perfomance deteriorates.
2006-11-13 01:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋