Is it wrong to have sexual conversations/web cam video interaction with other girls when u have a girlfriend?
found out, while my bf and i were fighting that he IMed some random girl on yahoo, and jerked off to her doing only God knows what on her web cam. he claims its not a big deal b/c we were fighting and i wasnt there. although we spoke on the phone everyday. i feel like he cheated on me. i mean he might as well have brought this **** home and f*ed her. i am so confused. i am so torn/ b/c i dont know if i can forgive, and i dont know if i really am just over reacting. i found porn on his computer b4 and told how that hurt my feelings. i can understand (not like but understand) his watchin porn, but he told this **** she was beautiful, how hard she was making him, and how sexy she was and so on. is it just me or is this cheating? i wonder how he would feel if some stranger was jerking off to me naked on a web cam. that would make a whore,
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2006-11-13 00:54:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You have an immature boyfriend. Ask him if he prefers a woman on a TV screen or the real thing. Jer*ing off is never going to be as good as the "real thing".
2006-11-13 01:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong, in a big way. Couples fight- even long term married couples- and if people used this as an excuse to go out and do "random" hurtful things because they were fighting, and their significant other wasn't around, there would be constant chaos.
He has no respect for you, the other girl, or himself and needs to grow up. You might be able to forgive him, but forgetting may be more difficult, and maybe you shouldn't forget, because he'll likely disrespect you again in the near future. Good luck!
2006-11-13 01:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 02:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should take this so personally, men jerk off all the time and porn is a natural stimulant, why not watch the porn together, choose some that you like.
2006-11-13 01:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you consider to be acceptable in a relationship. some people think swinging is fine. some people do not. to each his own, you know? there are no rules in relationships but the ones you make for yourself. if this bothers you and it doesn't bother him, then you two are not compatible. or...maybe he really does think it's wrong but is trying to blow it off so he can do what he wants. personally, if this happened to me, i'd be pissed. my husband knows this. he cares about my feelings and wouldn't compromise those.
2006-11-13 01:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by practicalwizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once i found porno magazines in my then boyfriends apartment... i was so hurt.. i felt like if i was not enough..i can understand your frustration.. i dont know how old he is but if he is young well.. he might be behaving his age.. sounds very immature if he is an adult... let time pass by if he is really apologetic.. maybe it was just a moment of a great timagination.. but just hoping it does not continue
2006-11-13 01:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by mmm..whynot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋