2006-11-13 00:25:58 · 17 answers · asked by MJ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How you feel about him doesnt mean anything darling..its how he feels about you..... you'll only end up getting hurt..be careful.................good luck.
2006-11-13 00:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I for one would never be with a married man in the first place. I would not want my husband cheating on me. Any man that cheats on his wife has no respect for himself OR his wife. I hear so many women out there that make the excuse for seeing a married man that he is not happy at home and that is why she is seeing him, that SHE makes him happier than his wife, that is a bunch of crock. If he is soooo unhappy at home with his wife why not get a divorce with his wife first and then go play.
Stop and think about this, being the other women, he can't take you to town and out to eat and to his house, that is not unless he is stupid but then again he is stupid in the first place for cheating on his wife.
I would think that the mistress would feel pretty cheap seeing a married man. The people that I know that are cheating on their partners, you know they are having sex with each other and then going home and having sex there too.......ewww that is just nasty.... The mistress to me is trash, but then again he is trash for cheating on his wife too. Anybody that cheats on their mate and the one they cheat with are all trash to me. That goes for the wives that cheat on their husbands as well.
2006-11-13 01:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be very uncomfortable knowing the fact he's got a family and that a mistress will end up being a loser, hence the man has a real family to come home with.
2006-11-13 00:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It feels confusing. One minute you think that he loves you the same way you love him and the next, you think that he wants nothing to do with you. And just when you think you are strong enough to walk away because you are sick of it, he says or does something to draw you back in. It's a powerless situation and he holds all of the cards. One day you may feel like you are everything to him, and the next you feel used and heartbroken. It's not a good life and it's hard to get out of.
2006-11-13 00:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mistress of my ex felt no remorse about her actions. She got what she wanted, he cheated on her and so on. Now he's in jail, funny how thing came around.
2006-11-13 00:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by sillyredhead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know. I would imagine it would be a pretty miserable life knowing that you were only being used. Then again l guess you would be getting exactly what you deserved . Women who play up with married men are nothing but scum anyway. Hope you are not thinking of being one. Don't go there !!!!
2006-11-13 01:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your thinking of being a mistress.... Think again please, It's not worth it .All you 'll get is broken promises and heartache, I know from experience, I know every circumstance is different, but find someone who is not married and build a strong relationship without all that heartache and borrowed time
2006-11-13 00:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by sum2000mayyah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A "mistress" gets what she gets. No empathy here...they should keep their legs closed and find men who are actually available to them.
2006-11-13 00:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by lilly 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've never been in that situation, but i believe it's nothing to be proud of.... you may be recieving love from the married man, but unfortunately you will always be the second woman of his life...the first is always his wife.
good luck.
2006-11-13 00:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by invisible1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't even entertain the thought. If he's married walk the other way. If you were married would you want some woman doing that to you? If he were married to you would you want him cheating on you? If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you.
2006-11-13 00:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by justcurious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOu are avoiding outpouring you emotions on this journey you are taking. YOu are also not in control of yourselfm and time is passing you by.
2006-11-13 00:29:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋