But he told me that it is nothing....that it's just natural for a guy to taste other DISHes????...He told me that he love me so much and so was our baby...how can he tell me he loves me if he's checking on other girls????He even wants to marry me and introduce me to his family...i just cant get it!!!
2006-11-13 00:16:26 · 23 answers · asked by mislead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
though he comes every other month to visit us(my baby and me) here in the phil.its hard to have a long distance relationship but i know im fool to believe in his silly words...but the problem is im also thinking about my baby..im starting feeling stocked..because he told me that he will get my baby if i decide to work abroad.and that is what im worrying about.
2006-11-13 00:37:08 · update #1
it is not ok for other guys to tast other dishes. The guy is has no sense of what is cheating and what is loyalty. I would let him know that what he did isn't ok. Normaly I would tell you that the guy faced up to what he did and is worth trying to findout what made him do it after you have figured out your own emotions, but I guy who thinks what he did is ok isn't a guy to stay with. Get out.
2006-11-13 00:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by desiree d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he slept with another woman is not the issue. Lies and deceit are the issue. Sure it is natural for both men and women to be attracted to other people. The issue is how you act on it --- or don't. And the excuses he gives are just his way of not taking responsibility for his actions.
If you want to be with him then you need to set some reasonable and measurable ground rules, now, not after the two of you marry. Then see if he lives up to them. I suspect that if he is not committed to making a marriage work, it won't be long before he breaks them.
On the other hand, he may be able to do the right thing.
Until then, make no commitments. And if he won't agree to ground rules then he isn't committed to you and you'll know your answer.
2006-11-13 01:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gril if any man treats you like that then i'm sorry but he doesn't love you, he's just says that so he can go with anyone else he wants and at the end of the day he knows that he has you to come home to. Don't let him treat you like that, if he's walkin over you now which he is well if you stay with him he will walk all over you for the rst of you life. Get rid of him and soon he will realise what he's missing and if he dosen't come back well then you know he's not worth the hassel. whatever you do don't let him treat you like that. you deserve so much better
2006-11-13 00:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by deery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me understand you guys have a baby and you have not been itroduce to his family yet
and it is normal for guys to taste other dishes, since he only tates one dishe while with you so far I guess you must be ready that thier will be more dishes in the future
and girl let me tell you we are not a dishe at least not me
I am a woman my policy is you can taste so can I
If you beleive in that crap then get ready for a life of misery
2006-11-13 00:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to him. He won't get your baby either. Why would his circumstances of living be better than yours. He's playing off of your fear of losing your baby. Kick him to the curb and do what you have to do to provide a good life for yourself and your baby. If you're really concerned about what he could do as far as custody, get legal advice and go from there. He's a class A jerk. You can do much better than him.
2006-11-13 00:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your bored with your dish and your never having it again nor do you want little dishes like it running around.LOVE is meant to be given to one not several....never ever screw around in a relationship it is destructive to a realtionship and the other person as you are obviously feeling. If he marries you he just as well open a resturaunt to cope with his dishes!
2006-11-13 00:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is common, and frustrating to guys like me, as a woman gets the impression that all men are just looking for another garage to park the buick in for the night.
"honey, I want to see if my love for you is real, so I have to sleep around with as many other women as I can."
2006-11-13 00:19:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that boy lied to you when he said he was not going to! he will always lie. he is very secure that what ever he does you'll still be with him. if you let him get away with this he'll always do it and why is he seeing other women if he is thinking seriously about your realtionship!! girl this happened to me and i broke up with him and then he came crawling back to me but you know what it was too late!! he found out that all the girls he was seeing were nothing but sluts and they dint really love him for who he was! and he realised he had let something good go away and once you let go thats it!!! this guy needs to learn a leson!!!
2006-11-13 00:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by chicaguanajuatence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleeping with another woman is nothing wow that's the first lol hunny kick his *** out the door you need to go and find a real man that want you for who you are and not you and some other girl on the side
2006-11-13 00:23:13 · answer #9 · answered by bonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him girl...it aint normal to "taste other dishes" if you love the one you got. that marry me meet my family is just a "dish" full of lies. find you someone else. you can do a lot better.
2006-11-13 00:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by .......... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋