I am in a relationship with a lovely horny man and we have a great sex life. My problem is that over the last year or so I am finding that I am not getting wet enough for sex and we r having to use lube - which makes him feel he is doing something wrong and makes me feel useless - which in turn makes it worse. I get turned on but the juices just dont flow (unless its oral) I am mid 30's and happy in every respect apart from this, any ideas?
2006-11-13 00:12:45 · 13 answers · asked by mmpeachey2 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
This is quite normal.
Just make oral a standard part of your foreplay.
A win win situation.
2006-11-13 08:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by FUGAZI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you may have a problem with your body. You may need to talk with your doctor. It may just be that you need to take a little break and try other stuff. Try having sex and stop and play around make it last longer and you get time to get turned back on. I have heard from many friends that stopping in the middle to play around is a big turn on. They are teaching me all the secrets for my new marriage.
2006-11-13 00:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had a nasty case of Bronchitis a few weeks back and they gave me a mucolitic (I think that's how it's spelt. It's often found in expectorants) to get the gunk out of my chest... let's just say it had some interesting side effects.
I'm sure if you ask you're doctor they'll know all about it. From what I understand it's not as unusual as you may think.
2006-11-13 00:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for me, sufficient foreplay is a must. Try abstinence from sex for a while and monitor if it gets better.. or maybe you could try different techniques and positions to excite you more.
Or, you could ask him to give you an oral first to turn you on and once you are sufficiently lubricated, then get him to penetrate..
hope it helps!
2006-11-13 00:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi Momo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not getting turned on enough he needs to give you a full body massage or go down on you. Make sure the t.v. is off the lights are off and your relaxed. you need to be relaxed
2006-11-13 00:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be just a nutritional need, try frequensea or bee pollen with organic honey daily
use coconut oil for lubrication
or it may be connected to a yeast infection, dont eat yeast bread or beer and take olive leaf extract daily
2006-11-13 00:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by luvblis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol at six times.
i would suggest that you maybe freshen up but in the bathroom before the act and lube it up in there thats all i can suggest!
2006-11-13 04:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by kiki_dees 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a natural situation in some women. I think you are right to use the KY and not worry about it.
2006-11-13 00:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you try oral before having sex??
2006-11-13 06:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by MASHI_20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you for using lubrication. lol this happens as we ge older, you chose the right steps, you could have a chat with your gp.
2006-11-13 00:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by Hunny Bun... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋