What would you do if your in-laws help hide your husband's infidelity from you?

Answer 1

When it comes to infidelity, it's true, the spouse is typically the last to know. Most likely, not only did your in-laws know, but a lot of other people probably knew or had their suspicions as well. No one wants to be the person to tell, so many people both actively and passively try to prevent the truth from coming out. If I had to guess, I'd assume that your in-laws behavior isn't all that atypical. So, I'd treat them as I would treat anyone else who had hurt me. I'd let them know exactly how I feel about what happened.

Answer 2

Leave him for his infidelity and stop commutnicating with his family (I hope that you're not dependent financially on him, because otherwise this alternative is harder to be put in action).

I am telling you this because there are these people I know... well the man is constantly sleeping with others in spite of the fact that he's married and has two children. In the beginning his family was lying for him and covering him. With time this so -called "politeness" totally disappeared and just notice where their insolence got to- they started looking for nice attractive chiicks for him, yeah they were officially to be called his personal pimps!

So my advise is: think about your self and your kids first, and don't allow yourself to become the victim. Do not reconcile, fight back

Answer 3

Be very hurt and humiliated. If the marriage ended because of it, I would cut all ties to them. If the marriage survived the infidelity, they could expect to receive a very chilly reception from me at best for a while, but eventually, I would have to forgive them if I was willing to forgive my spouse. Ultimately HE's the one that broke the vows of the marriage. His family just didn't want to be caught in the middle.

Answer 4

If my in-laws did that, I wouldn't have anything to do with them or my husband. I'm sorry, but it's never right to cover up affairs. His family was wrong for doing that and you deserve much better. If his family would cover this up, I wouldn't trust them to be a possitive influence on your children. I wish you the best and pray you get as far away from those sick people as soon as possible. Good luck.

Answer 5

Well,it just shows you where he got his morals from and the whole family isn't worth a pinch of dog **** get them out of yours and your childrens life (if you have any)infidelity should be against the law punishable by death.and no i'm not religous in any way i just have very strong principles.

Answer 6

Oh my that's terrible. I would end the relationship with all of them. What kind of example will this set for your children? Its sounds to me like they have all turned there backs on you anyway. Let them know that you are aware an how hurt you feel by there betrayal then leave that whole family alone.

Answer 7

let them know that i know
but think about it how are they suppose to tell you
OH by the way my so who is your husband is cheating on you
you must see hard it will be
so my best advise is to find out why they did it,what if they were trying to make drop this person
their might be reason behind them hiding it, it might be they were trying to protect you
so talk to both him and the family before doing anything
Good luck
and I hope your can resolve this

Answer 8

Nothing cause as my mother in law says God is not sleeping & he see's everything & you give it to God & get your peace of mind back. Expereinced in husband's infidelity!

Answer 9

Blood is always thicker....what do you want from your future? Was it a one nighter or an affair? Ive just had a terrible experience with my mother in law...who I stupidly moved in with us.... they will always side with their precious little sons...their babies! Think about what it is you want from here on.... good luck.

Answer 10

Hopefully your DONE with your husband so include them in the dumping and move on.