My best friend has been going trough real hell lately and no matter what i say to her she feels so mad and alone and that life is nothing but hell, like she wants to give up. :S because she s been trough many bad times in her life.
Any advice how i could help her???
2006-11-12 23:58:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You got to ask her why she's acted that way... You are her best friend so maybe she'll be able to tell you freely about what she really feel... If she told you her problem, then maybe you can give her advices...even the most short advice can be a great lift from the load that she is carrying...and if ever you can't give her advice, just tell her that you can't help but you are always there to listen... some times, just opening up to people can be a great help... it can make her feel better... and if EVER she don't want to share her problem, just tell her you love her... (if you really lover her...well, maybe you do love her.. YOU ARE HER BEST FRIEND!),, tell her that problems doesn't matter because there are still lots of people who cares for her dearly... if she can't fight for herself, tell her to fight for the people who loves her...and one of those people is you...make her feel special... that way, she might loosen up a bit and live life to the fullest..
2006-11-13 00:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by -'UpEnDi'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a bit of space. But dont leave her completely alone. try to make her know that you are there to stay and you will always want to help, no matter what.
Try do things for her that could just make her life easier. Like buy her groceries, cook for her, take her kids out (if she has any). Slowly start going out more. start with a get together with her family.
She needs to be sure that she can always depend on you. And you both must be able to deal with each other's situations.
Good luck
2006-11-13 00:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by jst4di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 11:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people are so set on being upset that there is nothing that you can do or say to help them to snap out of it.
Just be there for your friend, take her out for a fun day like a movie, lunch and shopping. Listen to her and tell her that although you may not know what she has gone through you respect her strength and are willing to listen to what she has to say. You could even suggest that she talk to a health professional about her ordeals and offer to go along with her for moral support.
Remember though that although you want to help, you are not responsible for your friend's mood and her actions.
2006-11-13 00:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Netto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend to get give out but never give up. Because if she believes in GOD she knows that he has a plan for all of us. And as long as she got him she's never alone. And i will pray that the lord gives your friend the strength to endure because regardless of what we go through in life we got to be thankful for being alive. And tell her that Jesus died for us and i can imagine that he would be really sad if she gives up on this precious life he gave to us. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 00:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kam 1261- You have no idea what her friend is going through! You can't call her a drama queen just because she is going through some drama! I play counselor to 2 of my friends taht cut and I woul never call them drama queens! I thik you are the only drama queen here. you want attention.
To answer the question, You should let her talk to you and just listen. Don't argue. don't interrupt, just listen. As I said before, I play counselor for 2 of my friends who cut, so I know what your going through.
2006-11-13 00:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend take her to the most liked person of her choice, frequent her to conditions /place of her liking and do not let her dine alone, always, see that she dines with you while relishing her tooth taste you should make her more comfortable.
What more! try to solve her problems she is goaded with. Take
a visit to Counsel.
2006-11-13 00:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by MANOJ J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erisleena- try to convince her, console her, tell her about all positive things.
life will not remain like that forever if she wants then ofcourse.
our life itself is not ours.someday everyone has to leave.
ask her to be happy,
take her outings
make her jolly
c what for she has become like that and try her to overcome those hurdles.
ofcourse without knowing the exact problem this much only i can tell you for her.
all the best.
2006-11-13 00:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know you are there for her and will do what ever she wants to make the situation better for her.
Then just leave her alone for awhile. She may just be needing space.
2006-11-13 00:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get in contact with me through my profile. I think she should be shown the true picture about life and experiences in life. cya.
2006-11-13 00:04:51 · answer #10 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋