ok i will tell more about my gf, she claimed she moved from one city to another in the usa from her parents to her aunts, but she was on a web cam talking to me and the rooms before and after were the same also her ip address was, then claimed needed rent for aunts, so i checked her out with an investigation agent cos i was paying my hard earned cash, and they identified her parents as living there by there names which i knew and by the name of a van of a well known cable operator, so it all fits she lieing, do u agree and am i being paronoid or protecting my position i love her but feel cheated and am very angry
2006-11-12 23:50:46 · 7 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are not being paranoid. I think you are being a sap however, sorry to say. Tell your girlfriend you are having trouble trusting her. You have found out that she is lieing about her living situation and you no longer feel obliged to assist her with paying for accomodation. Why did you start to do this? Why can't she support herself? Why the hell should you be supporting any of her extended family? You should wake up and fast. This girl sounds as if she is just taking you for a ride I'm afraid. Furthermore, has this always been a long distance relationship or were you planning to live in at least the same city at some point? I feel really sorry for you. You have clearly been drawn in by her. Tell her straight first and see what she says. Put yourself out of this misery and you can move on and find someone who would not take you for granted like this.
2006-11-12 23:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by rondavous 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a female to male transexual then you are asking this question in the wrong forum.
However since you asked, here's my personal advice. If you are in love with a cheat and a liar then what exactly do you expect out of her? She's doing exactly what you are willing to accept, cheating and lying.
However if you don't believe you deserve that, then move on to someone who respects herself enough to have some moral standards. Cheaters and liars never change they just get more creative.
2006-11-13 00:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you are not actually sending money to this scammer. She is probably stringing along a whole bunch of guys the same way.
2006-11-12 23:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you may love her..but you are being used..Big time!...how long are you gonna take this behaviour from her....telling us on this site won't ease your pain...I'm sorry -- but the relationship isn't anything if it isn't based on trust.
2006-11-13 00:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a life.
2006-11-13 00:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by PROPHET 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please explain why the heck you are asking this question in the GLBT community????
2006-11-13 00:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by roqofages 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being SCAMMED
2006-11-12 23:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋