The male in question is single, the female (best friend) is married, but they telephone each other daily, write to each other on a regular basis. He tells me they are "friends" Come on guys help me out here!
2006-11-12 22:30:00 · 14 answers · asked by sols 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay the female was an old school friend, who does not like me around....and honestly, I am a bubbly outgoing person and I have difficulty understanding what ahe`s about..they phone each other at night...nothing to do with work. I`ve never experienced a `gut` feeling like this before, yep I do have male friends and he has other female friends, but I get the feeling this is more
2006-11-12 22:46:31 · update #1
yeah
2006-11-12 22:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by answerer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely possible and even encouraged to have friends of the opposite sex. Married women can be friends with single men and vise verse or single/single, married/married. Friends of the opposite sex can and do offer each other a lot. Attraction can be a problem in any friendship ONLY if one or both acts on it. Anyone can be "turned on" or "infatuated" with another person, same sex or opposite...... FRIENDS never cross that line. FRIENDS never act on sexual attraction. FRIENDS will always be there for you, day or night, fair weather or storms, rich or poor, good hair day or bad.....lol......don't ever let anyone tell you that men and women cannot be friends. My best friend is a man, I am a woman. He is there for me no matter what when I need him, and vise verse, our kids are friends, and my boyfriend views him as a great guy. No big deal here. Friends are what they are, if there is anything else mixed in the situation then friends is what you are not.
2006-11-12 23:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by sng2mee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a married woman who works with almost all men. I only have male friends. I speak to them often outside of work and frequently go and do things with them as a co-worker/ friend (w/o hubby). I have a few friends from work that I talk to daily and at odd times since our schedules are CRAZY. These men are JUST FRIENDS. So, my answer is YES. A married woman can be just friends with a man that she talks to daily as long as she sets boundries early in the relationship and sticks to them.
2006-11-12 22:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both my husband and I have a lot of friends that are of the opposite sex. Neither one of us would even consider having anything more than a platonic relationship with them. It is completely normal that a male and female be friends with each other without sexual attraction.
2006-11-12 22:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. I had a married male friend who would even take me out to the movies, museums, parks etc; Sometimes he would take his kids with him and we would all amuse each other.
He has never attempted anything of sexual kind. It has always been friendship only. His wife even befriended my mom and would come over to have lunch with us (my family).
2006-11-13 00:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what makes u a fuss over here? (just asking too...)
YEAH, it can and at all means possible, my dear. i suggest that you should have tried to make freind w/ your oposite sex for you to understand how its all about, but it requires other vital factors too, ie; childhood friends, or been friends since school days and have developed w/in the friednship trust and security for each other...... yes, so many are having that kind of male & female platonic freindships. i got one too,.......:)
2006-11-12 22:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by candee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they may be friends . females and males can be friends and most of my friends are males i seem to be able to get along with males better then famales.
it is hard when one likes the other but the other doesnt but sometimes it is best to stop being friends when that hapens if your with someone
so yes i do think if it is just friends then it can be friends.
2006-11-12 22:58:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tori F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your question better like what they look like or do they call each other cause of work or something else. Do they sneak off in the middle of the night.
2006-11-12 22:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-29 02:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes men and women can be friends ther is no rules against it and i myself have a few women friends and that doesn't mean i want a relationship with them (romantic and or sexual)
2006-11-12 22:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a friendship between men and women but it must be limited and controled not to be changed to something else and if one of them is married they must care about the other partners feelings..
2006-11-12 22:48:45 · answer #11 · answered by www 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋