im 17 years old and I've known this guy named Brad whos 15 for 2 months and I noticed this boy was real mature he raised himself cuz his mom didnt want him and the rest of his family disowned him cuz he got locked up..he always protected me from my ex kenny..we ended up gettin togeather as boyfriend and girlfriend becuase he acts older then me and pratically lives by himself but older room mates which is 23 and 25..anyways I found out he got me an engagement ring last week and I know he loves me and i know he wont hurt me but im scared to get too close im in love with him but I dont know really what to do..I wanna marry him one day but why am I so scared to get close how can I really give him my heart??..How can I get closer to him??..
2006-11-12 20:54:11 · 3 answers · asked by Still Inlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My personal opinion.........you both need to slow down. You are neither one ready for marriage right now
2006-11-12 21:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what state you live in but I am going to guess that a 15 and 17 year old can't get married in it anyways, so being engaged seems like it would be more able being in an exclusive relationship than about preparing to be married.
There are so many reasons not to be exclusive at your ages, you barely know yourself and your will have so many changes in the ways that you feel about so many different thing that have nothing to do with liking each other.
I recommend that you do not accept a ring as an engagement ring but only as a friendship ring.
2006-11-13 05:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by Axel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are both very young to be thinking of getting engaged. i would suggest waiting for a few years it is a very big commitment. wait til the time is right for you. good luck
2006-11-13 04:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by sharon w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋