my boyfriend and i are goin to cancun in march. a romantic get-away, no kids! now my best friend (of 8 years) and her boyfriend wants to go w/ us. how do i kindly tell her no? we want to go ALONE
2006-11-12 19:28:14 · 12 answers · asked by princessstephanie_69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
explain to her that your boyfriend and you are making it like a honeymoon. if you explain to her that you two just wanted it to be a romantic holiday with no kids. if she has been your friend for that long she should understand and yes she will be hurt and dissapointed but she will get over. she prob thinks it will be a good chance for you and her to catch up as well. she will understand you just need to tell her dont let her go if you do you and her will only end fighting about it later or even at the holiday then it will be a long long holiday and even the ed ofthe friendship
2006-11-12 22:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Tori F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are having a romantic get away with the two of you and you will have to take a rain check on taking a trip with them.
Honestly is the best. Can you imagine how misserable the trip will be if you just let them come with you??
You should of said NO right off. But....you didn't. SO do it asap.
A good friend will understand why you want a romantic get away....if not then they arn't good friends.
2006-11-13 03:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. It wil be so much fun if we go together. Theres nothing compare to a group romantic get away. But there are ties that people wantsd to spend some time just between two special people. and their woul;d be another time to spend romantic get away for friends. Sya sorry that this time you just want to have a romantic get away.
2006-11-13 03:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say something like, "I'm sorry, but he and I had planned and want to be alone on this trip, just the two of us." I can understand why you and he want some alone time, without kids or friends along. If your friend can't understand that, and gets angry, don't give in to her.
2006-11-13 10:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you want some alone time with your bf. i sure shell understand sinse shes your friend of 8 years. if not, then she probably wasnt a friend worth having.
2006-11-13 03:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by sampolo193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your dilemma,Just simply say no,give her the reason why you say no,and tell her you expect next time.I know you do.You don't have to lie or seek for an excuse.
2006-11-13 03:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Gone Car 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..tell her kindly that you and your boyfriend
want to have a romantic get-away together.
p.s/
tell her dont get angry about it
2006-11-13 03:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just softly tell her that it's you and your boyfriend's alone time.
2006-11-13 03:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst tell them no sweetly and make them understand.or give them something good so that they listen to u.
2006-11-13 03:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by abeeksha0307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply ,,, Just say NO!
2006-11-13 03:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋