i fell in love with a female in philippines and she has a very serious heart problem and has one valve functioning and i helped her to regain courage and strength to go on. i helped her to get medicines and to visit doctor with my money. then she disappeared. i was really hurt very much and i was really worried all the times. my heartbeats have skipped alot too. then i decided to move on and met another woman and talked and grew my feelings for her too. then the woman who has heart problem came back online and i was confused . then the woman i talked that i grew my feelings for her because i decided to move on and she had a heart attack that i used to love a woman who has the heart problem. so actually, im very worried for her health coz she had a heart attack. shes in serious condition now. i couldnt live with that so im going to banish myself ever to fall in love again ! i dont want to fall in love . i will only care ...im not gonna have children of my own . i know that now .
2006-11-12 18:03:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am with everyone else in that you got scammed by lovely number 1...........I do wonder though if you are handing yourself out to women in need for a reason...assuming ofcourse that this is the type of woman you seem to fall for..or pull in....the dame in distress type....If you do..unforturnately..as with men too..these kind of women sometimes drag onto men who can suck them outta of the current drama or problem...and then..once they are up and running..that same sweet kind prince becomes unappealing or boring to them...Why dont you do this for a change...dont look for women...just let it happen..and when it does find you.. try a run with someone who doesnt just need to be the princess in need ..but who wants to take care of the PRInce in the relationship just as much,,,pssttt...thats you!!!!
And women in other countries with dying needs...are probably very far from death..and use the internet to prey on great men like yourself..stay clear of them..and look for love in safer...areas.
AND DONT banish yourself from love or from a life of children..etc..etc..were these women really grande enough to jolt that kind of response from you???? the best revenge in all of this would be to move on...in a real and happy relationship...and have a good life...despite the **** heads out there...for every 10 dogs my dear..you CAn find one stunning diamond...
I wish you the best of luck....and the best of real love..and intimacy.............
2006-11-12 18:42:59 · answer #1 · answered by Unitsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Deaf, Don't think like that. Sure you had 2 unhappy meetings, and i think it's really strange you would run across 2 different women, with the same health problems.So don't judge love and having children because of this.Go out and start meeting some nice healthy gal's and enjoy life and be yourself.You just might meet Mrs.Right. So don't banish yourself from love. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-13 02:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you allow yourself to fall in love with the ideal of love rather than love. You just talk to these women and allow yourself to be in love with the ideal of love. You want it so bad, you are willing to do whatever and think that's love. Love is too people. Do these women love you, or are they using you for you desperation? It sounds as though you have a good heart with honorable intentions, but your getting ahead of yourself not spending anytime with them seeing the positives/negatives of both sides of the parties. Don't throw in the towel. Slow down, find local women or travel to them and have them travel to you. Spend time together and ask all of the personal questions you can in a long distance relationship. These are hard because time together allows you to see a lot in a person and gives them the opportunity to get to know how you are also. Hope this helps. Perhaps look into personal counseling because it sounds as if you have some attachment/insecurity issues that if not addressed could get you into some worse situations.
2006-11-13 02:15:35 · answer #3 · answered by sissytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're falling for a big scam. Get off your computer and go outside...meet some real women- not this online dating bulls hit
2006-11-13 02:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you seek help...have you actually met these women or has it all been online? A soft heart will get broken everytime, especially when there are people out there looking to take advantage of soft hearted people!
2006-11-13 02:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by onottopilot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off the computer and stik yer dik in someone. its that easy. well maybe not but its a start.
2006-11-13 02:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are depriving yourself of the hapiness that one person should have.
i have experience that also...
want to email me louiseazurin@yahoo.com or my ym deb_azurin@yahoo.com
2006-11-13 02:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by crystalink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you **** !!! cant ya see, theres nothing wrong with her. shes just bleeding your money. theres too many suckers like you in this world.
2006-11-13 02:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got scammed pretty hard
2006-11-13 02:05:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋