my life in a positive way? Be creative...
2006-11-12 17:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
A great question! Why wait till tommorow? Why not do it right this minute:? What do you want to change? Do you know what that is? What is it you really want to do? Have you sat down and written it all out? If I ask you this minute, "What do want to accomplish in your life?" Could you tell me in one sentence?
I actually went through one of these moments in my life a long time ago and I had to go around and around until I found out that nobody could really tell me what to do......I had to do it myself. Abraham Lincoln once said, and I don't know if if this is absolutely word for word..."People can be about as happy as they make up their minds to be." In other words, if you want to make a change in your life, then just make up your mind to do it and then do it!
The secret, I believe, is to not really let anyone else in on your secret desire to change because they will sabatage you every time. I'm talking about your own family especially!!! They won't do it on purpose, but they know you, they know how you are, and if you tell them you want to change, they won't support you. They will oppose any change in you (or anything else) That's just the way people are. Everyone (including ourselves) hates changes.
I hope you decide what changes you want and just go ahead and to it. Don't wait for someone to help you do it, because that will never work for you.
2006-11-12 17:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by GunnyCee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change starts with your mindset. You are in control of things, believe it or not. You more choices than what you already have and you can attain this just by shifting you attitude. Think positively and you are larger than the things that annoy you.
Hope this helps.
2006-11-13 01:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Syndus Beoulve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur life is positive, then what do u want to change 4. kill urself, them tomorrow will totally change. thats my creativity, good luck on ur change .
2006-11-13 01:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by honey bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think positive. Imagine yourself where you want to be. Be open to possibilities... Know yourself and what you want to do in life. Know what you want out of life. Then just go for it...
If you want to be creative, just do it... just start drawing, painting, writing... cut out images from magazines and glue them all together in a colage....
2006-11-13 01:11:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self examination everyday, try to find out the weaknesses and try to rectify that. Cannot be changed overnight.
2006-11-13 01:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm, I don't know anything specific not knowing your job, or anything you do, or have done. So I am just going to say start exercising as a generic answer
2006-11-13 01:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a sex change! Then you'll know how the opposite feels? ''wink''
2006-11-13 01:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by FLEXizme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dye your hair.
2006-11-13 01:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by SimAlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and be proactive...
2006-11-13 01:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by dodadz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋