PLEASE READ!My 15 yr old little sister and I just had it out!She has a boy on her myspace who she dates,I looked at his page and he is verry dirty,Im worried about her sleeping with him because she likes him so much:-(I told my dad who promised he would stumble on too it himself so that he didnt have to tell her I snitched her out,but he got so mad he just told her.I logged on myspace and she blocked me.Im so upset,she may never talk too me again.Cheer me up please!Tell me im pretty or something.
2006-11-12 16:53:50 · 35 answers · asked by Erica B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes this trukey also goes too her school.She didnt meet him on the internet.
2006-11-12 17:09:41 · update #1
i had more severe fights with my sister with her slapping me and me pushing her and stuff, all bcoz i asked her not to smoke wen she was pregnant..yeah, so i was interfereing in her life, but as a sister we have a duty to worry abt our siblings...dont worry u guys will make up...i m spking frm experience.. and m sure u a beautiful person..inside and ouside...
2006-11-12 16:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by danny's mom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lying within a family is wrong. First of all, as family, you should be able to be honest and upfront with each other. You should have (and maybe you did) confront your sister about this and let her know your true feelings. Then, if you still feel you need to pursue it for her protection then you go to Dad. Now secondly, Dad is Dad and he should have handled it upfront as the head of his household because you all ready did your part. You see by Dad not taking care of business and he had planned on lying the situation got worse as this is how the enemy works. Honesty and truthfulness are always better even if it doesn't turn out you way or the way you think it should. Just think about this for next time and have a family talk about honesty. Something to cheer you up? You are beautiful as you are a personal hand creation of an awesome God who breathe His very breath into you to give you life ... Pastor James ~ Tx
2006-11-12 17:05:38 · answer #2 · answered by I'm A Believer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
At age 15, your little sister is too young to be dating seriously. You did the right thing by telling your dad. It's too bad he told her that you found out, but some day she will be glad you did. You're a good big sister, keep looking out for your little sis. Try talking to her after she calms down and tell her you were worried about her and this guy and didn't want her to get hurt. And I bet you are a beautiful girl because you sound like a beautiful person!!
2006-11-12 17:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I snitched on my little sister too. She was about 17 and going out with older guys. I told my Mother who told my Dad, and it got out that I told on her. She told me in private. To this day, I still hear about it. She did get pregnant and brought the baby home to live. She got married to a guy, who was a loser, and had two other kids. She got divorced from him and made a fortune in writing books. She is a millionaire, but ever now and then she will call me a snitch. The baby boy she had became a millionaire too, so they both turned out ok. I am just saying, there are some things that need to be said, as they could have gotten murdered, or in your case, the guy could give her a bad disease. They know later in life that you were only trying to protect them, even if you have to hear it in jest, they know better. Just ignore it for now, and write her a nice little letter, and tell her about girls that wind up with their life ruined or murdered by people that are like this, she will not like to hear it now, but later, when she has her own children, she will know better. Parent have a bad habit of throwing the snitches name out there, so just know that when you do snitch, be prepared to come up with a good excuse. Good Luck. You are pretty too.
2006-11-12 17:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by shardf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you did the right thing. Usually the right thing is the hardest to do. I'm a father and I would definitely want to know that kind of information. Your sister will get over it in time. Others here calling you a snitch are more then likely kids like yourself and not parents. You'll be fine and your sister will be better for what you did. She doesn't realize it yet, but one day she will.
And I'm sure your very pretty. Hang in there.
2006-11-12 17:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by dawnsdad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it's so hard to watch those we love make mistakes, isn't it? The source of your own happiness lies within. Hold the ones you love with an open hand. Your sister is having an experience, albeit a bad one. Hopefully she'll learn something powerful and truthful from this but even if she doesn't you cannot stop her, much as you'd like to. Let her know your love for her is not based on her behavior, you love her regardless. No need to intervene in her life. You are a beautiful child of God and so is she. Namaste, sweet sister.
2006-11-12 17:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Richard G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a very hard decision as you being her sister, you look out for each other, but she feels the trust is gone between you and can last for life at times. you felt you were protecting her and she feels you violated her privacy and trust. since she was already dating this guy, you can assume they have had encounters. your dad is to blame in part as he took the route of telling it was you which causes more problems. did your dad lock her out from the site which he can do on myspace. many families are torn apart by things they do or don't do by decisions they make. you could have reported his site to myspace which would have shut the site down without anyone known why or who reported it. that would have been the best route.
2006-11-12 18:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing even though it doesn't feel that way right now. When you are older you will both laugh about this because she will have moved on from this loser by then and had better boyfriends and friends. I am sure you are very pretty but what is most important is that your heart seems to be in the right place. You can apologize to your sister for violating her privacy but just tell her you were worried about her because you love her.
2006-11-12 17:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Charlotte G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if this will cheer you up but you gotta know that you did the right thing. That's your job as her big sister. Yeah, she'll be mad but she'll definitely get over it. If you wouldn't have said anything this guy could have ended up hurting her either physically or emotionally and because of you, hopefully he won't even get a chance to get that far. Let her be mad. At that age, who stays mad at a sibling forever??
2006-11-12 16:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by Tiacola Version 9.0 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this is so normal. You did the right thing, you are protecting your baby sis. This says you love her very much. I have a big sister that i've been very mad at many times, she is 39yrs old and i am 36. And i've made her very mad, once she didnt talk to me for 3mo. because i beat up the person she was dating, (i caught them cheating on her,she belived the other person) But eventually we worked it out. Because we are sisters that is forever.
2006-11-12 17:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by JodiBaby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
kids that age are very stubborn. Just tell her that you told your dad because you love her and you were worried about her safety. look up and article or something giving facts on how many young girls are victimized by Internet geezers and let her know the facts. Don't yell at her, instead, talk with her.
oh yeah, you are pretty.
2006-11-12 16:59:08 · answer #11 · answered by Mel 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋