Are you the type that desires the consolation of loved ones after a personal tragedy, or do you prefer privacy?
2006-11-12 16:33:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Privacy, but everyone is different. If you have experienced a personal tragedy its better to keep your privacy at a minimal though. If you cut yourself out from the world it can be unhealthy.
2006-11-12 16:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by LIZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I faced this, everyone who claimed to be longtime friends suddenly disappeared, so I learned and go tused to being alone with my own situations. I think that no matter what a person prefers, the Friends should be available whenever they're called on. Sometimes, as little sense as this might make, you need someone there with you but in complete silence.
2006-11-13 00:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ex-presidente inteligente 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through both. In the first few days I want to be consoled, then I prefer to be alone for quite some time.
2006-11-13 00:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Artemiseos 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of both.
I don't like not talking about the person who died-- then it feels uncomfortably as though they never were, as if they are a taboo subject. I think I would prefer to remember the loved one with everyone else who loved that person, and to reflect on that person's life with those who knew them.
2006-11-13 00:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lanani 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a nice mixture.
i want to know that the people i love care about me and want to make me feel better.
but i also sometimes need a little time to myself, maybe to cry a little, or to just think it all through.
2006-11-13 00:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Its Josie! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is personnel. How about you. May be you are the one who want to be consoled I think.
2006-11-13 00:39:31 · answer #6 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
privacy...i can handle things on my own...even a death in the famliy...i prefer to handle it by myslef...(and i have)
2006-11-13 00:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BOTH!
I want to know there are people there if I choose.
2006-11-13 00:37:51 · answer #8 · answered by smilinattheblues 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think privacy
2006-11-13 00:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by caseyrae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋