she has a picture of me and her, i don't like it because people post comments. Even though the comments are complments but i don't feel comfortable with people judgeing me. How can i tell her to take it out with making her feel akward and bad. she is the best friend i have.
2006-11-12 16:26:32 · 14 answers · asked by kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her you appreciate her thinking of you but you're not as outgoing as she is and to please take it down she'll understand..I agree with you..Theres so many freaks out there lusting over our pics....yukkkkkkkkkkkkkk
2006-11-12 16:31:36 · answer #1 · answered by southernpal4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first and foremost you want to be honest with her--she's your best friend! Simply tell her what you just posted. . . that she is your best friend in the entire world, you don't want her to feel bad, but posting the picture makes you feel like you're being judged and it makes you feel uneasy that there are all these strangers making comments about you.
Once you've told her that, suggest a solution that would make you feel better. She could take down the picture or perhaps she could edit it so that your face isn't showing.
If you're REALLY worried that she'll get her feelings hurt about all this try this idea when you confront her: copy and paste the picture of you two into a program like "paint" or some other picture program. Print off the pic and put it in a little picture frame. . . you could even get creative and decorate it yourself. This shows her how important she is to you and that you value her as a friend. Think of it as a peace offering for taking the picture down. :)
2006-11-13 00:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by hollybug_88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just phone her when you are in a good mood and explain that you don't feel happy with the picture. Just say no hard feelings against you lets move move on from here and forget all about it. Better to come out with it than hold it inside you. She should understand since she is your best mate.
2006-11-13 00:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Ellesmere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her just how you feel if she is your friend she will probably just say okay or ask how to take it off/deleat i do not know if that do not work go tell a teacher who you are colse to i mean one who won't tell the principle and if your homeschooled look for a old lady down the street old people have better understandings then we do sometimes.
2006-11-13 00:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her it makes you uncomfortable to have that particular picture on the internet and ask if she would mind taking it down. If she cherishes your friendship like you do hers, she will with no problem.
2006-11-13 00:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by hersheekysses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you would like it to be taken off, because you are not comfortable with letting anyone come and view your picture.
2006-11-13 00:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by lonerforever14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in a nice way,tell her to change the picture,and put her own picture,then check what would be the compliments of people towards her and her alone.if she's your real best friend she wont get mad it's just a simple request anyway.cheer up....best friends always understands...God Bless!
2006-11-13 00:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by carmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you don't want to be friend if this person is not taking the picture off my space
2006-11-13 00:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by brandy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her the question you just asked. Show her that it bothers you, but that her friendship means so much to you that you do not want to hurt her feelings or make her mad at you.
2006-11-13 00:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell her you would appreciate her removing pic because it makes you uncomfortable.
honesty is the best policy
2006-11-13 00:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetness2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋