I'm 13 and a 34c, and i'm like sad about all the little remarks people are saying behind my back about my chest size.
2006-11-12 16:09:47 · 25 answers · asked by ~Gina ~ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes, I have. At my junior prom, no less. I was a late bloomer, and when I finally "blossomed", boy did I blossom. Here's the thing: You can't change how or when your body decides to grow. If you're unhappy with your chest size later in life, you can get surgery, but it's not you that is the problem - it's them. 13-year-olds can be very petty. In five or ten years you will laugh at how shallow the whole thing was, even if it seems like a huge deal now. Be proud of who you are, and don't worry about what other people say.
2006-11-12 16:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by mthompson828 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. When I was your age I was a 38C by the time I was 18, I was a 38D. And I'm not overweight. Just big breasts run in the family. My mother NEEDED a bra when she was 10. She was a B cup!!! AT 10 YEARS OLD!!
I have been accused a few times about stuffing, I know exactly how you feel. Just try to ignore it. Girls are ALWAYS jealous about us who have breasts and they don't. I had friends that pretty much HATED me for it. They were flat as a board, and here I was with these big boobs. Then the boys would stare at me all the time, and ignore them. They all hated it.
You just happen to have developed faster than them, that's all. Don't worry about it...Just be happy you have them. BE proud of your body. Some people aren't as "well endowed" as us. You are beautiful the way you are!!!!
2006-11-13 11:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by Cblack22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I haven't. I have no perspective to offer you from there.
However, I do know what it's like for people to say something behind backs... It's a childish thing to gossip about other people and they're just really immature. Don't listen to them because they're probably jealous and they will try to hurt you by doing the only thing they know how to do best: gossip. You have to be the lady here and showing yourself in your best light will crumble down their sinly acts.
Just keep your positive self-esteem and don't let them bring you down. However, if this gets caught up to the point where it's really unbearable, you should talk to your parents about the abuse and then go to the principal or someone who does this type of guidance. If you let your abusers tease you again and again, they'll continue. This doesn't call for irrationality however, and don't go beating them up; just talk with the people who manage discipline in your school.
Also, don't get caught up in being part of the gossip for "revenge" because they're just trying to get you all riled up. Just have patience and be the young lady that you are.
It also helps to vent your situation to your parents or someone you trust, like a good friend; perferably tell someone who can do something for you!
:)
2006-11-13 00:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by kat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I remember being accused about that. It was third grade and a teacher stopped me in the hallway, saying I needed to take my tissue out of my shirt. She even groped my chest to see if I was telling the truth. This kind of experience comes with having a big chest, I'm kinda used to it now.
2006-11-13 09:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by spyder90tishuez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let it bring you down. I was 11 and a size 34 c. I am 15 now and they stopped growing by the time i was 13. Dont let mean words or pepole stupidity make you sad
2006-11-13 00:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, teenagers (no offense) are very cruel. I was accused when I was your age. Eventualy you will become proportioned and that might be as big as you will be the rest of your life. Eventualy when you become more proportioned and they become more flat because they stop growing, they will look at you and say I want that. It will turn around and bite them in the butt eventually. Girls are very catty and mean. Let it go in one ear and out the other
2006-11-13 00:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I've been blessed with a nice size and I've only received compliments on them-never any inquiries of their authenticity.
2006-11-13 01:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think anyone ever outright accused me of stuffing, but i did grow very fast in a short amount of time, and everyone was kind of like "wow, i never noticed how big your boobs are!"
2006-11-13 00:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are just jealous, so tell them to go stuff their own to make them feel a bit more equal, and if it is boys saying so , then it is because they like what they see and are being pervs. Good luck Hon, and don't be ashamed of the great figure you have, there are millions of women who pay thousands of dollars to have what you have!!
2006-11-13 07:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by kendra B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i haven't, i am sorry they are doing that to you...i was harassed in a different way, but you know the people who are harassing you are jealous and insecure about themselves. keep that in mind. and boys are not so bright at that age and still try and get a girls attention by being giant ignoramuses themselves
2006-11-13 00:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jessy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋