My period is late by 2 weeks. and im sexually active. my period is normal for the most part. im 16 and my boyfriend has basically bailed on me. help me please. i dont know what to do and im really scared.
2006-11-12 15:38:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry for your stressful situation. Remember with sex comes responsibility...I suppose you realize that now. Jerks like your boyfriend are exactly one of the reasons people tell you to wait for marriage to have sex. If you are not ready for a baby, please do not have sex.
Get a pregnancy test soon. In the meanwhile, stop use of all drugs (even over the counter ones) and alcohol. Planned parenthood is likely to counsel you toward an abortion. If you are pregnant, please do not consider aborting the life you have within you. It is your BABY. Check out this site, if you are thinking about abortion...it is graphic, be prepared. However you should know the truth.
http://www.priestsforlife.org/images/index.htm
Women who regret having an abortion: http://www.silentnomoreawareness.org/
Any Catholic church will help you with your decision and will help you to either keep your baby or put him or her up for adoption.
God bless you as you take this important step.
2006-11-12 16:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... first, take a deep breath. This can be scary and I understand that. Tomorrow, or really soon, go to a Planned Parenthood or some other organization that offers pregnancies for really cheap if not free. Take it and then wait. Within a few hours or possibly days, you will know the answers to your questions. Now I think would be a good time to think about what kind of options you have if you happen to find out that you are pregnant... you can choose to have an abortion, you can choose to put the kind up for adoption, or you can choose to raise the child.
One thing to keep in mind is your own personal morals and values. Do what feels right to you. All you can do is follow your heart and do what makes you happy which is all that anyone can ask of you.
2006-11-12 15:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, kiddo..
time to talk to your parents, or at least the parent you have the best relationship with..
You will need to make an OBGYN appointment for a test immediatly, then you can decide what to do with your parents as soon as the results are back..dont rely on home tests..
I went through this 13 years ago, when I was 16.... only difference in the story is I had a supportive boyfriend...
trust me, this will be the best solution..or start to one at least
2006-11-12 15:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't Worry. Take Action. Get a pregnancy test. Knowledge is Power. The worry might cause you to miss your period. Most important thing of all no matter what talk to your Mom.
2006-11-12 15:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by tab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could just b late. whenever i am physically active in sports or w/e im late by a lot
just to b sure though, u should take a pregnancy test
2006-11-12 15:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by qwertyuiop23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe you should be worry. I'm assuming that you didn't used protection. I would advise for you to get a pregnancy test and check your self. If you think your old enough to have sex, you should be old enough to suffer the consequences. (Sorry, I didn't want to be rude. I just hate young people getting in trouble like this) I wish you luck and keep us posted.
2006-11-12 15:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by From a friend. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get blood work done. Then you need to decide IF you are pregnant, if you want your child. Then you need to get a test done and if he is the father He NEEDS to help you.
2006-11-12 15:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋