The guy she cheated on is my best friend and I caught her with another guy and I told her she should tell but she hasn't ...so should I tell him and have my sister get mad at me or not tell and later my best friend getting mad at me for not telling?? Help I am soo confused!
2006-11-12 15:05:55 · 12 answers · asked by Cherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
some times it is best to not say anything
2006-11-12 15:19:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a tough one, because either way, you will be betraying someone's trust in you. All I can say is, your best friend is your best friend NOW, but, your sister will be your sister FOREVER. I would tell my sister that her poor judgment and behavior have disappointed you and put you in a very awkward position, which you do not appreciate. Tell her that you hope she will do the right thing. Then back away from the situation as best as you are able to and keep your mouth shut about it, to anyone. Hopefully, your sister will take the high road and be honest. This is HER "battle". As much as you love both of them, don't make it YOUR battle, too.
2006-11-12 23:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by happy heathen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both and neither...in a manner of speaking. Let me explain. Your sister doesn't "have" to tell him, but she should break up with him. If she wants to see others guys that fine, but don't lie about it by cheating; that will hurt her reputation as a person later on when she does find someone she wants to stay with. And you..you don't "have" to tell your friend but what you can do is try to steer him away from her. Explain that at this point in her (your sister's) life she is alittle flirty or likes to look alittle too closely at other boys and that you would not want him (your friend) to get hurt by her imiturity. He and your sister may hook up later in life and be the perfect match, but right now they may have soon problems. That way...you don't have to say one way or the other and you can't be blamed
2006-11-12 23:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by jeffery g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Stay out of this one! This is her business and I am sorry but sisterhood trumps friendship! Your sister is yours for a lifetime. Back off trying to force her into telling too-she was a girlfriend, not wife! One of these days you might-no-will need her! She doesn't have to tell if she doesn't want to.
2006-11-12 23:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT's your sister's life. She needs to handle her relationships and the responsiblity of her actions. That may seem harsh and I know you feel bad for your friend. Don't lie to him but don't voluteer information either. You are in a tough place. Hang in there. By going to your friend, you are risking losing him and your sister's affections as well.
2006-11-12 23:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by marmie5452 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may p - - s you off, but you "did" ask. I would mind my own business and not say a thing. Considering you have a life of your own to live, do you "really" want to be smack in the middle of "that" situation? If you "do?" Sorry, can't help you. Good luck.
2006-11-12 23:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bestfriend about it in this case that would be the right thing to do, and as for your sister, she has no right to get mad at you , she cheated, let her suffer the consequences
2006-11-12 23:09:59 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
but out
2006-11-12 23:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay out of it unless you want your
sister pissed of at you.
just don't follow in her foot steps.
2006-11-12 23:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your business.....stay out of it
2006-11-12 23:25:55 · answer #10 · answered by girlegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋