what am i suppose to do or say to this x friend of mine?
2006-11-12 14:57:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It takes two to tango. It would be fair if your friend dumped the both of ya. You say "he was drunk" but what is your excuse? Just tell her your sorry and hope that she can forgive you, accept responsibility for your own actions. It will probably be hard for her to trust you around any of her boyfriends for a while.
Good Luck.
2006-11-12 15:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by Peace 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Assuming you did nothing to provoke this behavior in her boy friend then there's nothing you can say or do really ,,,, You could ask yourself a few questions though ,,,, The first one could be ,,,, Just how much of a friend is or was this friend of yours ,,,, Another is ,,, Where are her brains if she gets mad at your for what her boyfriend does ,,, Anther is just how much does her boyfriend really like her if he's kissing or kissed you ,,,, What kind of a guy is he if he would do that in the first place ,,,, How many other girls has he kissed besides you ,,,,, You didn't mention your age bracket but if she's like this then you have to wonder if she's going to be like this the rest of her life ,,,, You can't be held responsible for what this guy does and she's wrong and out of line if she' blames you ,,,, Just take this as one of life's lessons and go on ,,,, You don't need her or her boyfriend or their crap anyway I'm sure and you are well rid of them ,,,,,
2006-11-12 15:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As painful as this may sound, don't "say" anything to her or him. The truth of the matter is, in time she will find out what a low life he is, and she will more than likely come to "you" to apologize. If for some reason she does not, she wasn't your friend to begin with, okay? Just wait it out and carry on with your life. Good luck.
2006-11-12 15:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not a large deal! All human beings make blunders and a minimum of he apologized, proper? tell him neither human beings will ignore this yet we could promise neither human beings will do it back lol. i imagine the reason he informed you your his first is because he needs you to be his first, he dosent count number that factor even as he replaced into inebriated because there replaced into no which means behind it. He lied because he loves you and needs to make you chuffed. in case you adult males forgive eachother then bypass on, yet do not ignore.
2016-11-23 18:45:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a damn thing. she wants to be with him then let her. if she were a real friend she would realize drunken actions are sober thoughts and he wanted to do that and he was going to try that at one time or another. she will realize when he cheats on her that she made a bad decision as far as choosing him over you. so don't lose any sleep over it .
2006-11-12 15:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you kiss him back? If not you did nothing wrong. He will kiss another and another then she will realize what kind of guy she has.....It will run it's course be patient...
2006-11-12 15:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You lost an acquaintance
2006-11-12 15:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by Do What 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't say anything to her. She obviously was a sucky friend to begin with.
2006-11-12 15:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by Darko 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing. She made the right choice.
2006-11-12 14:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
she will come crawling back to you after he cheats on or dumps her. Just let it happen.
2006-11-12 15:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer W75 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋