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2006-11-12 14:46:20 · 14 answers · asked by nita1307 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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I learned some of the warning signs from a friend of mine...Her husband changed from briefs to boxers, quit smoking, had laser eye surgery...all in a six month period! He also started to suddenly lock his cell phone...when before he would let the kids play games on it and stuff! Then suddenly they weren't allowed to touch it at all. He would also go to activities she couldn't go to...like during her work schedule...or on days she couldn't get a babysitter. He also became more critical of her...the way she looked...the way she kept house, or the way she took care of the kids. I hope this helped you!

2006-11-12 15:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Definitely the loss of affection, mine stopped cold turkey for 2 wks. No kisses, No spousal affection at all.

Anouther sign that hasn't been mentioned when if you know the women, she confides something to him that, she hasn't already told you.

My experience the woman had a stress smile, I saw her use it when I was leaning against my then husband. It went away when he told me to quit leaning on him.

For instance she told him she has had a miscarriage from her husbands abuse.

Basically they defend their position as just friends, emotional affairs lead to the physical.

2006-11-12 15:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by disneyldy 1 · 0 1

almost as if he isn't in your life anymore, does he bathe more than usual, go out and purchase new underwear and clothing, does he pick fights, name call, and find falt with everything about u? does he go into a different room to talk on the phone, or has he just recently gotten a cell phone when he never had one before.is he distant, and doesn't talk to u like he use to. has he lost interest in the home, or refuse to do any home repairs. does he express to u he is unhappy with his life. does he do things deliberetly to hurt u. does he comment on personal things like your weight, has he suddenly become disrespectful, has his sexual ways changed, does it feel like your making love to a stranger. does he accuse u of cheating, or bring up boyfriends u knew before u married them. are there strange vehicles around your house. does he go out without telling u where he is going when he never did that before. do u feel as if something is amiss, but can't quite put your finger on it, u only know u feel sad, it's as if your loosing someone, and don't know quite what to do to stop it. thats your intuition trying to tell u something, like a warning.

2006-11-12 15:00:52 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1 1

Usually when a husband changes his habits....something is wrong.

When he starts working late, looking more groomed then usual, finding reasons to leave the house, getting caught in lies, treating you differently..either more loving or less, just acting weirder than usual.

2006-11-12 14:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1 0

He buys new underwear, new cologne, he sneaks off at weird times to answer his cell phone. All of sudden he is attending different meetings at work has weird excuses for not being home. He starts being really critical of you, what you are wearing, what you are doing, where you are going.

2006-11-12 14:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 1 0

in my experience i have learned that if you feel it he is. in my case(s) they were always working late, when i would call they would avoid it so i would have a friend 3 way call from their number and surprise they would answer. two of my cheating ex's would have glitter on their clothes or face from makeup and what not, or they would have hair on their clothes that was not my length or color, i could keep going but I'm not it all depends on the guy and how dumb he is but like i said if you feel it then he is always trust your gut

2006-11-12 15:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by SanDee 2 · 1 0

Let's see:
-He works later
-or more hours
-buys new underwear
-condoms go missing from his supply at home
-he's missing at odd times
-he's protective of his phone
-starts acting more paranoid
-buys some new cologne and clothes
-more groomed

2006-11-12 14:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Greg S 3 · 1 0

EWWW...if you have a sudden bout of unexplained vaginal itching and smelly discharge, then he's probably been sleeping with someone else!
I haven't experienced this personally, but a gynecologist friend of mine says that she's seeing more and more cases of this condition in women who believe their husbands are sleeping around!

2006-11-12 14:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Works late more often, maybe even on Saturday. Is more into exercise...may even join a gym. May buy new clothes especially undershorts. May be less sexual with you.

2006-11-12 14:49:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

When he is gone all the time and you don't know where he is going. Their are times when you just don't know. I know someone who partner is cheating on them but this person has no idea. Sometimes you are just too blind to know the truth. I been their and its hurts.

2006-11-12 17:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Apple 6 · 1 0

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