Have feelings for my friend... what do I do?

Question

I recently met up with my friend whom I've known for nearly a decard. We live an hour and a half apart and I've only seen her a few times in the past couple of years. Feelings for her surfaced.

I don't know if I should tell her or not. I also have feelings for my ex still but at the moment I don't know if I'll get back with her (she's still in love with me). Also, my friend might get awkward, even though we rarely ever see each other.

I'm seeing her again soon. Last time there were plenty of opportunities for me to make a move but I didn't. What should I do?

Answer 1

i definately think you should tell your friend your true feelings for her. you never know she could feel the same way about you as you do about her. you'll never know if you dont try it. it could work out really good or not soo good but in the end its all going to be up to your final decision i mean do you really truely like her or do you think you just feel this way about her because you and your ex are done and your not over her but you want to be. i hope i helped you out in some way and good luck with whatever choice you make.

Answer 2

just tell her, if it don't work out than u had nothing to loose. u hardly even see her. And she'll get over it and u can go back out with ur ex.

Answer 3

Love is too precious to risk throwing it away by not sharing your feelings. Tell her and ask what she thinks. If she's not interested then nothing is lost. If she feels as you do then there is all to gain.

Answer 4

Believe in yourself. Just tell her. at least you had spoken what you felt. Believe me, you will feel much much better.Why thinking of your ex when there's someone else? Good Luck!

Answer 5

you should tell her how you feel for her and if u can not open ur mouth then wrote or text her