i've got a "friend" that is just plain rude. to me and to other people. i've decided i don't want to hang around this person anymore, but i need a good way to tell the person. i'm not good at telling people i don't like them. it feels mean. what's a good way to let the person know?
2006-11-12 14:39:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
As honest as you can, or just avoid them. Rude people usually find out the hard way. People call me rude but I like to be honest. There is a difference. Never hurt someones feelings on purpose, but never lie to them either.
2006-11-12 14:43:29 · answer #1 · answered by RIDLEY 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Sweetie, but the best policy is honesty! Let your 'friend' know that her rudeness makes you uncomfortable and you just don't enjoy being around her when she acts this way! Your friend may n ot even be aware of how rude she really is and how it may bother other people!
Hope this helps!
2006-11-12 22:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by NOELLEVEG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't like his rudeness and you don't want to hang around him anymore.
Or just refuse to go with him if he asks you to go some place.
Or leave if he joins a group that you are talking with.
Ignore him.
2006-11-12 22:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know abt rude. but i did have a "friend" who wud always pull me down. nothing i accomplished was good enough. there were always bad things she wud say abt me but with a smiling face. i have since lost contact with her.
i think in ur case too, these kind of persons do more damage than anything else. u cud stop hanging out with her or maybe be equally rude to her, she'll know wht its like to be in the other persons shoes.
2006-11-13 00:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-13 06:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them if they hurt your feelings. Or just stop talking to them, but only when at school or work. You don't need negative friends. All of my friends were negative, and I don't trust anyone except my husband. That's why I have only my husband as my best friend. People backstab all the time.
2006-11-12 22:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your friend that you don't like their rude attitude and that if they keep up with their rude attitude I would tell them that you wish not to be their friend anymore in a nice manner, I wish you best of luck
2006-11-12 22:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by garythain1973 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ooo i have the SAME problem..more than one of my friends is really rude and mean...and its a problem..i mean i feel bad for the people that are being tortured. i dont know what to say though either...good luck! sorry that i'm not much use
2006-11-12 22:42:40 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Pyar Ki Pari♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't hang out with rude people. But that's just me.
2006-11-12 22:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to hang around them then don't hang around them, they'll soon get the hint that somethings up, there is no need to say anything.
2006-11-12 22:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋