ok, my husband and i were seperated about 3 yrs. i met this dude and we spent alot of time together and really enjoyed one another, well my husband came back in the picture,i dropped the other guy,and me and my husband moved on to be happy.But every day for the past three years i think about him.Coul i be in love...or just a bored house wife.........
2006-11-12 14:29:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are bored to death. Don't spend anymore time thinking about him . Hes gone get over it .
2006-11-12 14:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you think you're in love with your husband? Is he a good guy to you? Does he love you? I think you might have a case of "the grass might be greener," which is not the same as being in love. You just need to focus on your husband and stop fantasizing, it's not fair to him. And it's not good for you either! Maybe you need a job.
2006-11-12 14:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off, if you are HAPPILY married then you won't be thinking about a "fling" from the past. Sorry, that's just my opinion. Something obviously isn't that "happy" in the relationship if thoughts of the other man are haunting you that bad.
2006-11-12 14:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe is not the other man, is just that you are not in love with your husband and the other man is just an excuse.
Or... be carefull, the other man can become an obsession bc you are not happy with your marriage life.
2006-11-12 14:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by silvia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boredom, infatuation, desire for variety...is your sex life in a rut? Perhaps something to spice it up...
...and pu tthe other guy out of your head...that's pretty much in your control and you are choosing to think about him...how would you feel if you knew your husband desired some other woman? You are emotionally cheating...stop it if you want your marriage to be as happy as you claim it is.
2006-11-12 14:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you moved on "to be happy". Are you happy? If you are happy, why are you thinking of the other guy? I doubt you are in love (with the other guy). Are you bored? With what? Grow up!
2006-11-12 14:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by 2smart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is still missing from your marriage, even though you say you are happy. Look inside for the answer.
2006-11-12 23:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are as bored as I am!
2006-11-12 19:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by goodlilnsg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been in exact situation it's tough .
I don't think I'll ever forget .
2006-11-12 14:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the love, trust and passion has faded. lust has set in.
2006-11-12 14:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋