ok..theres this girl I have known since midde school ( we are 21 now) and I have always felt she was prettier than me..not a WHOLE lot prettier but just enough to make a difference. I found her on myspace and I tried talking to her ( even though Im jealouse of her and dont really wanna talk to her) I made an effort to be nice to her so she wouldnt know i was jealous so i complemented her picture on myspace...her reply was just "thanks"...It really eats at me that she knows shes better than me....what can I do...I know i should just forget about it...its sooo " drama" but I just cant stand that she knows shes prettier than me...at least i think she is.
2006-11-12 14:03:17 · 14 answers · asked by chicwitpurpose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
as long as you keep acknowledging she is prettier than you, you are going to continue to make yourself miserable. Who cares what she looks like. let go of the past and focus on today and tomorrow. Did you ever think that she might be thinking the same thing about you?? Quit wasting your time thinking about what she looks like and start focusing on how gorgeous you are!!!!
2006-11-12 14:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.,
don't be insecure. i mean yes, it's tough. u need to boost ur confidence, perhaps there is more to that insecurity than u think. i mean maybe u wnt to be her friend.
okay, think of it this way, one can sometimes be prettier than the other but it's all the same, they could be thinking the same way as u do about a different person. so that makes the 2 of u similar., plus its not just about beauty u know, beauty comes in different shapes and sizes, it's all in different packages., though it's tough u got to live with it but that does not necessarily mean u should base ur whole life with that fact., it's a bit to shallow i guess, but it's normal for every woman, so u need to boost ur confidence adn just forget the competition, because no matter what it will always be there. be contented in what u have and who u are., so fine she knows, it does not really matter. adn so if u dnt want to 4get about it, think about it in a different light, u could be better at something that she is not. well there are many things. u just have to divert ur mind on it.
don't lose confidence! love urself!
2006-11-12 22:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by fanny l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant honestly be wasting your time on such an issue can you?...this sounds so crazy to me!...first of all move on...the problem you have is in your own head...im sure there are many people prettier then you and uglier then you as well thats how life works...we dont all look alike and yet life goes on...perhaps if you got a new outlook on the situation you would feel better!...there is a very pretty girl i have gone out to clubs with on occasions and i know she looks way better then me by far in every aspect but different guys like different things...lucky me huh!...im not jealous of this girl i admire her beauty thats all.....
2006-11-12 22:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by ELIZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please for the sake of your sanity let it go. There's someone prettier than everyone!! My cousin is much prettier than I am and guess what neither one of us cares. There's always gonna be somebody better than you in everything whether its looks, style, work, and even school. Life is too short to worry about these kinda things!!! Just move on with your life. Release and let go of the HATERATION!!! What else was she supposed to say!! I mean when people compliment me I say thanks. Isn't that the polite thing to do? Just forget you ever knew her and your life will be a whole lot easier!!!
2006-11-12 22:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by chinesefoodruleZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if she's prettier than you? You obviously know that your pretty so why does it matter. I think the thing with girls is that whenever we see a good looking girl we feel threatened. It's kind of silly when you think about it. We are always trying to be the best looking, kind of like guys and thier testosterone. Exept with us its estrogen. Its just human nature, so try not to worry about it to much or you will drive yourself crazy thinking about it.
2006-11-12 22:07:54 · answer #5 · answered by Candace T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well then let her think she is prettier but that doesn't mean she is better than you. Remember, you don't need to prove to her other than to yourself. Be pretty for yourself.
Remember, prettiness is in the eyes of the beholder.
2006-11-12 22:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, dont let that get to you, there are soo many ppl prettier than others but you dont see them down about it. its life, ppl were born with different beauties, you were born with a different beauty than her, just remember that, feel good about urself and everyone else will see.
2006-11-12 22:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of "thanks" you get that she thinks she's prettier than you and better than you...and that bugs you, even though you believe it to be true but don't have any idea what she might really believe?
Grow UP.
2006-11-12 22:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not the most important thing in life .
The way we treat others , how we mannage our lives
and who we are inside is what matters .
2006-11-12 22:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u let things like that get to you your only giving that person the satisfaction of getting a reaction, u know.........that means your giving her what she wants and that will only piiss you off more, so ignore her asss and do other things that you enjoy and get through your days
2006-11-12 22:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋