There is this guy at school that I have a crush on , but I don't have the nerve to talk to him . How do I build my confidence up and how do I get his attention?
2006-11-12 14:02:15 · 10 answers · asked by blah blah blah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would talk just walk by and say hello.
Smile at him. See if he has any interests that you share. Be yourself. Don't be someone who you are not. Once you start talking, your conversation might turn out that you have a lot in common and you won't have any problems talking. See the website for confidence builders.
2006-11-12 14:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well chick,i would make a note of staring at him alot,when he looks back at you smile at him,and do this every time he looks at you,but at the same time try and be descret,not to obvious,thats ugly.,,if you cant build up the courage to go and talk to him,get a friend to tell him you have the hotts for him,sorry chick bad advice i know im having a bad day 2day,if you inyear 10 and above just go for it,good luck girl,sorry again ,,
2006-11-12 22:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by kristy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always a good idea to start talking about something you both have in common....like school or a class you both take or a teacher you both have.
After that it'll be easier and then you'll get to know each other better.
2006-11-12 22:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start up a conversation and let him do most of the talking. show u are friendly. what's the worst that can happen? if u don't speak to him, u will never know how it could have turned out.
2006-11-12 22:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get to be his friend first. Flirt a lot, and charm him to death! After a while, if you think he likes you, ask him to hang out with you on the weekend or something like that.
2006-11-12 22:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF! Get one of your girlfriends-that you trust- to go with you one day when you just simply walk up to him and say - HI ! you will feel better with your friend at your side-which will help with your confidence.
2006-11-12 22:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every morning when I wake up I look in the mirror and sing:
" I woke up this morning and I said to myself damn I'm cute, damn I'm cute, damn I'm cute!!"
{i sing to the melody do WA diddy diddy dum diddy doo} I just use my own my own words!!
sing it everyday when u look and the mirror and your confidence level will rise!!!
2006-11-12 22:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by chinesefoodruleZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to like yourself, and believe in your good qaulities, try what you have a passion for, like i love helping animals so i volunteer to help at shelters and the aspca
then flirt friendly like and make yourself seem intersting to him, find out what he's into and learn about so you can talk about it
2006-11-12 22:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to talk to him if u're nervous, but i hope u're not too nervous to even smile at him...lol......just be yourself....forget about your shyness at the moment.....focus on him.....a flirty friendly smile or just a simple 'hi' will do.... :) if he's interested, he'll come over n' talk to u.... good luck
2006-11-12 22:05:50 · answer #9 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him over for drinks, and drink a lot prior to him coming over.
2006-11-12 22:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋