and why
2006-11-12 13:38:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Getting married is easy, it's staying married thats hard.
2006-11-12 14:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The easy part is well there is nothing easy about marriage .It is alot of work . People get married and think things will be wonderful and after the HONEY falls off the moon it suddenly becomes hard .
2006-11-12 22:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easy part is that when you really know each other you come to be very comfortable with each other,knowing and believing that everything will be fine,because both of you are there to rely and support each other.for me the hardest part is that when both of you are working and no more time for each other,no more time to talk,because of the pressure work brings,the tendency is when you come home you just wanted to rest your tired body and mind.and sometimes money problem and third party comes in the scenario,you must be careful with handling those problem,those problem are the biggest factor of a broken marriage.all i could is that you must be ready and strong enough before entering a married life. good luck.....
2006-11-12 22:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by carmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the easiest part is when we first marry, and all is well in the world, the hardest part is when we have to end a marriage by our choice or someone elses. why? because we feel we failed, we feel we lost someone we loved, that we had alot invested in. we went into the marriage planning life, and looking forward to growing old, and having a good life. unfortunatly love is sometimes blind. the worst part is seeing the person for who they really are, rather than who we wish they were.
2006-11-12 21:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy to take each other for granted - like time spent together, things you do for each other become a part of your daily routine that you forget to be appreciative. the hard part is keeping the sparks alive - the feelings you had in the initial stages of your relationship. even when things get rough, i think it helps to think about why you married in the first place.
2006-11-12 22:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by harleyq8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easy part is saying "I do". The hard part is everything that comes after that.
2006-11-12 21:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by Butterfly Princess 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats hard to explain, it's hard when one partner isn't communicating with the other and shhit starts, the easy part is love bc it should be a natural emotion in their case. It's only hard when one or both parties aren't letting it out or asking for emotional help and need it. ok i tried =)
2006-11-12 21:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wedding day........
Everyday after....You MUST work on your relationship everyday you wake up. Hold her hand, Kiss her once a day AT LEAST, tell her you love her 3 times a day, make love AT LEAST once a week, (perf. more) and every moment, communicate and validate what she says, Listen more talk less....Be open to being her support and she will be open to toleration of the MAN gene us guys all have........
Good luck
2006-11-12 21:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by e_guanajuato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋